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    newtopua is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is she even into me?

    I met this girl at a wedding and got her number, she repsonds pretty quickly when i text her, but a couple times well be in the middle of a convo and just wont repsond. Usually id pretty much just forget and move on to the next one cuz she seems to be not that into me, but she gives me long ass texts continousy so thats the only thing keeping me around.Advice?

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    Default Re: Is she even into me?

    How long have you been txting since you saw her? if hse gave you her number at the wedding, she was prob interested to some extent......what matters is how you prgressed this whole thing during the txting!! if its only been stuff like jokes or "how you been kinda thing" i'd be careful, coz without any Closing, she may put you into the friend zone....did you text her and go strait for a date close? if not, my guess is that you prob should have, and then escalate Kino from a coffee date or something!! let me know son

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    Default Re: Is she even into me?

    I'm curious about this as well. There's also a girl I've been targeting for a while. The catch is that she's currently just a "friend", but I'm trying to change that. Similar to newtopua's case, she normally starts texting me, but no matter how good my game is, there are times when she suddenly just stops responding, even when she's very invested in the conversation. Even texts that imply that a response is expected. It's pretty weird. I kept all the PUA techniques in mind, and above that, we're both having fun.

    Interesting notes are that:
    1.) Again, I'm currently in the "friend zone", but she HAS shown interest in the past.
    2.) She always starts the convos with "Hey [my name]! " and nothing else, meaning she expects me to carry the weight of the conversations. But if she texts me as a way to relieve boredom, why end it so abruptly when she's into it?

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    CasanovasHydro is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she even into me?

    You NEVER KNOW what she's doing on the other end of her phone. She could be at work, school, her roommates walked into her room and had her come look at something in the other room.

    I wouldn't trip too much unless she's flat out ignoring you or taking forever to text back and it's short.

    When chicks don't respond in the middle of a convo, I f*rk w/ them.

    Like with stuff like this...

    Hydro - Oh yeah, how's that even possible? (

    Girl - *silence*

    20 mins later

    Hydro - RUUUUUUUUUUUUDE! You no love me! I'ma go cry into my new pillow now.

    When they respond back it's always w/ what they were doing and then finishing the convo. You can bust and be like, "That's old news I'm onto bigger and better things like, shat you're up to now."

    You're calling them out in a fun way and they can tell that I'm fu*king around and I'm not taking it personal.

    I've always heard to not text twice in a row...BS! I do it all the time and it's fine.

    Never take it too personal, brotha.
    Last edited by CasanovasHydro; 05-27-2011 at 01:14 PM. Reason: Auto Spellers, BLAH!

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Is she even into me?

    we as humans are always doing something, I'm sure you have had online conversations or phone conversations and somehting just pops up, so don't get moody when she's suddenly not responding.

    I think that when girls message you (even if it's to kill time) , it's an opportunity for you to show them who you are.. it's a ticket to impress, entertain, and ask them to meet face to face .... they probably have a lot of other people to message, why you .. right?

    texting 2 times in a row is fine, but everything is perception, whine and bitch about it = too clingy and uptight...

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    Default Re: Is she even into me?

    NewToPUA,

    Why are you texting so much? Try thinking about it this way: Do you want to be pen pals with her? Or do you want to hang with this girl and eventually have sex with her? With that in mind, try to be more goal and action oriented in your correspondence. Call or text her and pitch the meetup! Period. End of conversation. You pick up where you left off when you see her. The more brief your conversations the less likely you are to enter the friend zone and the more incentive she'll have to meet in person and find out more about you first hand. You'll know whether or not she's into you by how enthusiastic she is about seeing you. Don't over think the situation Bro. Act :].

    A simplified and scalable method like this is especially important for managing your time in the future when you have dozens of new phone numbers from girls that you'd like to see again. It can be difficult to maintain a bunch of continuous, open ended text or phone conversations, so you create a group of contacts, shoot them a couple mass texts then gauge their interest and availability. You can chit chat when you see em again :].
    Last edited by Kors; 05-27-2011 at 04:22 PM.


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