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    BambooLeaf is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    At the beginning of the school year, me and this girl had a class together and she thought I was cute. We joined the same after-school club (Business Professionals of America) and we interacted a lot, she showed a ton of IOIs. At a dance she grinded with me and again, showed IOIs by not stopping and putting her hands on my hands, rubbing harder, etc. I got her number and we've been texting for a month or two and she's been really flirty. I thought I was playing this good until about a week and a half ago, when she stopped responding to me, and I have no clue what I did wrong!
    I'll just put up our (my) texts since May 22nd
    Me: I just saw the most awesome thing ever.
    Her: And that is?
    Me: Like 7 midgets going into Home Depot. lmao
    Her: Haha! Did you getit on camera?
    Me: Nope My phone was out of memory, :/
    What are you up to?
    //And then she never responded//
    May 23rd:
    Me: What are you up to?
    May 26th:
    Me: I hate the rain
    May 27th:
    Me: Wachu up to?
    Me: (30 mins later) You're cool. :<
    May 29th:
    Me: Did you forget how to use your phone? Or are you playing hard to get? :P

    So now I've just given up, and if she texts me back then game on, if not then I'll find someone else. But the thing bothering me is WHY hasn't she been responding? I know her phone works because she sent a text to Facebook to update her status. One thing I've come up with is that she's just been having a sh1tty week, her last FB status was "God doesnt put us through any challenge that he doesnt think we're strong enough to handle."

    So what should I do? Just wait it out and see if she texts/calls me?

    EDIT: She just updated her Facebook indicating a busy night,
    "24 attractive soccer guys.... and {Friends Name}?! What a night (:" Ouch.
    Last edited by BambooLeaf; 05-29-2011 at 01:56 PM.

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    Ducktaylors is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    I'd move on

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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    Ducktaylors right bro. Forget about her.

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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    So I was about to delete this girls number, and she randomly texts me 'Western version!' She was talking about some drinks that we had when we were in Washingotn DC, and they had some at the supermarket in different flavors. So now we're talkin again.

    That made my day.

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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    I could be wrong, but it sounds like you've entered the dreaded "LJBF Zone"

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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    Quote Originally Posted by KennyPowers View Post
    I could be wrong, but it sounds like you've entered the dreaded "LJBF Zone"
    True son!! Frankly, after she didn't respond to a minimum of 2 texts, you should have played it cool and given up there!! There's no reason for her not to text you other than, a) she's busy b)she deliberatly decided not to

    either way, she needs to know you're not in the friend zone, and have no interest in being there!! I'd agree with the others on here and say move on...if she throws some ioi's to you after you've shown some higher social value then play on that, but stay in the mentality of being the prize and how she has to earn your time!!

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    guygetsgirl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    Hey - If this girl the sensitive sort, you probably messed up right at the beginning when you used the word "midget". Be careful what words you use when texting as they may cause offence especially if you don't know the person very well. Just a thought!

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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    she forgot how to use her phone, game cannot prevail through text. a tragic day indeed! oh well theres a cute girl youll meet tomorrow

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    Default Re: Why did she stop Responding? What to do?

    I think you took to long to make your move. 2 months seems like an aweful long time. get her interested and then show her your lifestyle. if your fun and social girls like that and will want to be around you. If you take to long to make a move they start to look at you like a friend.


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