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    Default Can I recover from this lame text?

    O.k. So I have sort of been talking to this girl. We saw a movie and went to dinner. She admitted to having a crush on me, but we work together so she said she is apprehensive to get involved. She was possibly going to go out the night after dinner with some mutual friends from work and she bailed.

    Our first convo went like this after she didn't come out:

    Me: Hey I am thinking of handing some cards out for work. It would be fun if you came.

    Her: Aww I'm actually not around today, I'm sorry Otherwise I would have. How was last night?

    Me: Oh good. I don't need you dragging down my image anyway. Last night was fun. The girls were bummed you didn't come out.

    Her: Hahah Shush brat!! aww I wanted to but I was over at my girlfriends house til late helping her do a bunch of stuff.

    Me: No need to explain to me. I was glad you didn't go . Hahahahahaha

    Her: Hahaaa I'm going to fight you next time I see you.

    Me: I'm pertrified.

    This is where this convo ended.

    So then the next day I royally screwed up. This is how it went.

    Me: You look cute when you are reading this, even cuter when you are reading this and smile. But you look the cutest whe you read smile and reply.

    Well she didn't for like 2 hours.... so I sent this.

    Me: I am sorry, I didn't mean to offend you, are we still cool?

    Her: Heyy I'm sorry I haven't had my phone on me all afternoon! Haha, you're crazy lol
    Watcha up to?

    Me: Oh good. I thought maybe I put you off when I called you cute. I just went shopping for some khaki's.

    Her: Haha. That's fun, Wish I could go shopping!

    And I didn't reply, I had to retain some dignity and not have the last text. So can I recover for the lame text. I looked up something to text to a girl and I chose that. I am a moron. gahhhh. I haven't text her since, so I don't look like a creep. What do you guys think I should do?

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    Default Re: Can I recover from this lame text?

    Telling a chick she's cute should NEVER "offend" her. If someone doesn't text back, then wait for them to start the next conversation or text them after 48 hours, whichever comes first. DON'T APOLOGIZE FOR CALLING HER CUTE. That was the only "royal screw up". Give her some space and she'll wonder why, it will spike her curiosity.

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    Default Re: Can I recover from this lame text?

    O.k. Thanks. so far that's what I have been doing. I haven't tried to contact her since. I think the reason I apologized is b/c I work with her and I didn't want to make things weird at work, or get turned in for sexual harassment. Normally I wouldn't apologize for sh*t. LOL. I know that looks weak as hell.I think I am just going to wait until like Thur. and ask her what she is up to on the weekend (in person if possible).

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    Default Re: Can I recover from this lame text?

    yeah try not to send two texts in a row like that. Sometimes girls just respond slow, or their phone is dead all afternoon, or (to be optimistic) she is trying to think of a clever response to text you. Asking "are we still cool?" was the only lame part of the conversation, otherwise it looks like it went quite well.

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    Default Re: Can I recover from this lame text?

    Honestly, I don't think there's an issue here. Just continue to text her, and like the former poster, refrain from using phrases like "are we still cool?"..that shows that you're chasing her, and although you are, of course you dont want to come off that way.


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