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    Jaz
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    Default HELP! Texting a girl I #closed today, messed up?

    Fairly new to this but thought it’s time to be brave. Believe it or not, I got this girl’s number while sitting next to her on the bus home after work today. It was actually a really good conversation and there was good body language, we were turned facing each other for most of the conversation.

    I thought I would be bold and text her a few hours after meeting her (today!). So I text her this:

    Me: 20.33 Hi, u know I don’t normally like lawyers, but maybe ur different? (she is a lawyer by the way)

    HB: 21.01 Haha what would make me different?

    Me: 21.21 If I tell u then u’ll just pretend to be like that lol

    HB: 21.55 No tell me

    Have I actually gone wrong and how do I rescue this?

    I don’t know if she’s kind of pissed off. Tempted to text back saying something like “Don’t take it too seriously lol. Are u more of a kind hearted person than the average lawyer lol"

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    Jack Greezy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: HELP! Texting a girl I #closed today, messed up?

    You're overthinking, you can easily talk about something else or tell her to find out with a smiley face.. You haven't messed up at all.

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    Jaz
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    Default Re: HELP! Texting a girl I #closed today, messed up?

    Thanks, yeah you’re right. I suppose I’m just used to girls normally including smiley faces and/or lol’s in a text/email, so I thought this to be not a good sign when really it probably didn’t mean anything.I did reply and now I’ve text her twice today, but it’s pretty much the standard boring “how was ur day” and “awww what happened?”
    As she doesn’t seem that jokey/flirty in her texts (surprisingly), it’s kind of hard to build rapport and get a fun conversation going.Any ideas how to get out of the trap of these standard routine texts?
    There doesn’t seem too much point in trying to start a flirty text message exchange, I think I’m just gonna stop beating around the bush and ask her for a drink. Not sure how to word it though, maybe something along the lines of “why don’t u show me how different you are over a drink, but I promise nothing but good conversation”?

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    Default Re: HELP! Texting a girl I #closed today, messed up?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jaz View Post
    Thanks, yeah you’re right. I suppose I’m just used to girls normally including smiley faces and/or lol’s in a text/email, so I thought this to be not a good sign when really it probably didn’t mean anything.I did reply and now I’ve text her twice today, but it’s pretty much the standard boring “how was ur day” and “awww what happened?”
    As she doesn’t seem that jokey/flirty in her texts (surprisingly), it’s kind of hard to build rapport and get a fun conversation going.Any ideas how to get out of the trap of these standard routine texts?
    There doesn’t seem too much point in trying to start a flirty text message exchange, I think I’m just gonna stop beating around the bush and ask her for a drink. Not sure how to word it though, maybe something along the lines of “why don’t u show me how different you are over a drink, but I promise nothing but good conversation”?
    I recommend calling her and try setting up a date.

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    Default Re: HELP! Texting a girl I #closed today, messed up?

    yeah your still fine. she showed interest but you seemed to want to make her chase when its actually just you chasing. no need to compliment her. As long as you drop hints every now and then that you only like being around quality people then she knows she is special. text game is all about having fun and being connected whenever you need. so make it so its not boring. and one thing that really kills guys is eating away at themselves thinking something is wrong when nothing is wrong.

    just keep it up. and whenever she shows interest like smiley faces, lol's and haha's. that shows she is enjoying talking. she might not neccessarily be laughing but it still means she enjoys talking to you and is in a good mood.

    yeah i suggest going for a meetup and then throwing some any person game. one way to keep her from flaking right off the bat is to make it a less serious atmosphere while your texting. so try some roleplaying to break down those walls and have more fun. i even roleplay with some of my girlfriends that im not even gaming. the shit is just fun
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