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    Default Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    I've been off the game for a while, started dating again recently. Was never a natural, but got quite competent at a time. So I'm back and rusty, but doing my revision and getting it back.

    So I got a great text conversation going yesterday with this girl, but I stalled it tonight! I want to make the next move a good 1. Check out these 2 conversations and please advise me peeps.

    Me: Hey cutie, just checked your new hair do on FaceBook. x

    Her: Hey, sorry I haven't had a chance to call you back. How are you? x

    Me: Busy. My skin got some summer sun. How's your china white? x

    Her: Apart from the slightly darker hands, as pale as ever! x

    Me: Tanned hands. My gosh. Pale as ever?.. I can deal with that, I think (-: Your skins great... but it's not your best quality

    Her: What is...!?

    Me: If I tell you, you might get a big head and might think I've gone sweet on you... You know, it's merely an observation

    Her: My arrogance doesn't need any inflation! x

    Me: Your voice, well... it's beautiful. Ok! Really, it's the best I've heard. That's enough, for now. x

    Her: I've never had anyone say that before. x

    So that's decent work. The compliment, I also meant it. So I text her back this eve. But I rushed it! I'm rusty guys!

    Me: Stop it!

    Her: Stop what!?

    Me: Smiling because I texted you

    Now this sh1t is a bit too 'Gamey' I think. The first text conversation (yesterday's) was following some PUA advice and me incorporating my own thing from stuff about this particular girl. But what I sent this was a bit contrived, looks like some sh1t from the internet, and I could have pulled that 1 better by making it more funny. Sure it's cocky, but not funny enough. AND... There was nothing she could have hit me back with, it was just a stopper. As indeed, I've no response back this eve. I could have worded that response better. such as:

    Me: Stop smiling and thinking about me. See, you're doing it.. right... now.

    It's not a killer, could have been worse. I'll leave sending her another text this eve. Damage limitation. That'll probs work in favour of the arrogance (which i now think wasn't appropriate/handled/worded well) of this last message I sent her. Like I don't require a long(ish) text session like yesterday to make me feel good. Just left it.

    I haven't screwed up too bad, it's just that I sent a conversation stopper with no hooks, but that wasn't the plan! I'm working nights for a while from Fri, and I could have bagged a 2nd date tomorrow (Thurs) If I'd played it right this eve.

    She might have even digged the last message, and it could work in my favour if I don't contact her for a short while. But I don't think so. I'm a cynic! It's healthy!

    p.s. I'm going to get some more numbers, cos i know that at least flirting with other girls at the same time helps your confidence etc. Ha, I like this girl! that's my problem! She's maybe only a 6 or 7 (hey not bad), but she's really brainy and has the best voice. I've met someone I like when I've just come back on the scene and am rusty!

    Thanks dudes,

    Rutger.

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    I've sussed the problem.

    Instead of looking back at the thread that had the cute "Stop it!" suggestion before texting it. I rushed it.

    So I texted: Stop it!

    I then fall asleep, for an hour...

    She texts back an hour later: Stop what!?

    but...

    instead of me checking back to the thread I got the advice from, and texting the response:

    "Stop smiling and thinking about me. See, you're doing it.. right... now."

    Which would have I reckon caused a response from her, meaning I could start a conversation again, and more importantly make suggestions that would have (honest!) got her to suggest another date, not me!

    I...

    Half asleep I texted: "Smiling because I texted you."

    It's totally different. Not the message exactly, but the wording etc. It's crap compared to the message I should have sent.

    I don't require any responses to this, just learn from this mistake dudes!

    Relying on advice is I guess a stumbling block for me at the mo with being rusty. Being so technical with linguistics etc. I look forward to being more competent again in the near future and be able to improvise more.

    Still a bollocks though, I'm back at work soon. I wanted a date this week with the girl. This stuff'll get easier for me when I'm more chilled with more experience again and not so time aware like I am now about getting this date sooner than later.

    What a ****ing mistake. A few words difference in that response and we could have had another groovy text game tonight and she'd have suggested I ask her out again.

    This is upsetting me much more than it should!

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    I've manned up guys!

    I'm off to bed now... and basically I'm a mixture of James Dean and Bill Murray (in my head, but whatever works eh?).

    and this chick aint causing me any grief...

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    You're complimenting her wayy too much. That compliment was AFC. You could have said something more witty or more like a neg.

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    You're complimenting her wayy too much. That compliment was AFC. You could have said something more witty or more like a neg.
    Hmm, I think the voice compliment was fine, the compliment angle is complex though, it's certainly not a no go. There was just a little too much compliment but you're right about more witty or more like a neg, but mixed in man. Ha, just negging sucks and is nowhere near as good as some peeps reckon, at least standalone. Your'e quite rude though J Greezy, I reckon I'll be doing real well again in no time. Not the best advice buddy, a bit brief and textbooky. I could figure that out myself. Nah actually, you have made me consider. But I'm no AFC you rude dude, just getting back in the game. And I reckon my style differs/will differ from yours. peace

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
    You're complimenting her wayy too much. That compliment was AFC. You could have said something more witty or more like a neg.
    Hey, for someone's who's rusty, at least I'm staying clear of the friend zone!

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    Quote Originally Posted by Rutger View Post
    Hmm, I think the voice compliment was fine, the compliment angle is complex though, it's certainly not a no go. There was just a little too much compliment but you're right about more witty or more like a neg, but mixed in man. Ha, just negging sucks and is nowhere near as good as some peeps reckon, at least standalone. Your'e quite rude though J Greezy, I reckon I'll be doing real well again in no time. Not the best advice buddy, a bit brief and textbooky. I could figure that out myself. Nah actually, you have made me consider. But I'm no AFC you rude dude, just getting back in the game. And I reckon my style differs/will differ from yours. peace
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    Haha, ay I like you already man. I'm not rude, I just get to the point and give it to you like it is. Don't be offended, we all here want to get really good with women I am a little harsh to you guys a sign of tough love! I want you guys to be good with women, just giving it to you like it is.

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    Default Re: Stalled some great text game. Advise me on kick-starting it peeps!

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Greezy View Post
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    Haha, ay I like you already man. I'm not rude, I just get to the point and give it to you like it is. Don't be offended, we all here want to get really good with women I am a little harsh to you guys a sign of tough love! I want you guys to be good with women, just giving it to you like it is.
    Dude, thanks for not biting there when I spat my dummy out. I'm back on track and sorted out the 'I can't wait to get a date with this woman again' vibe in my head. So what if I'm working nights this weekend? Gives me a good excuse to go cold on her for a few days (if appropriate). But, haha, if it also seems appropriate to get her to suggest we meet tonight, then so be it.

    Cute text thing going on today, no compliments, she's going to have to wait till the right moment for the next 1. No negs right now though, I'll use if appropriate, and be careful with it. definitely cocky again today but funny with it, and with good hooks. I'll post an update.

    This situation I'm in: where I was a decent PUA once upon a time, long break off dating, and now getting back in there but rusty... could make a good post (if i keep it brief and make the points well.)

    + I love women, I don't do this shizzle to get my own back on woman-kind. This is how women want us to be, and it's fun. I'd say it's respectful to play the game!


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