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    Class85 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is she flaking or playing hard to get???

    So theres this girl I like and got to spend a lot of time with her in Nola for my fraternities formal. Things were going great lot of Kino and attraction, she was grinding hard on me and pretty much showed me all the attention that night. Problem was I got pretty hammered and ended up displaying AFC traits at the end of the night (being needy etc). Well i thought I had blown it but the next morning at the hotel lobby she walked by me and kinna play hitted my arm so i figured she was still into me.

    Now to the problem.

    I called her up two days after getting back about catching a movie with me and some friends. She seemed nervous and excited and told me if her family wasnt having this dinner she'd "definitely go". So the next day I send her a text during my lunch break...heres how it went...

    Me: What did sushi A say to sushi B??
    Her: Lol! Idk??
    Me: Wasaah bi?!
    Her: Hahaha
    I leave at it that and then 5min later she texts me about how she has to pay $250 for the ticket she
    got in Nola, goes on for three texts before I cut it short because it wasnt going anywhere...this is where I got annoyed.
    Me: What a douche (the cop), but hey I gotta get back to wrk, ill call you later!
    Her: K bye! I cant make it tonight btw, im sorry!
    (I get out of work 5hrs later, call her, she doesnt answer, i text her)
    Me: Dang, that dinner tonight??
    Her: No, but I just got done working out, I wont make it in time.

    I dont know if this was a flake or shes playing hard to get...
    She does live 20min away but still, she told me at 2pm she couldnt go then at 8pm her excuse is she was working out... If anyone can help me understand this!!

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    Default Re: Is she flaking or playing hard to get???

    sounds like shes little of both. I would tread carefully here. she might think of you as more of a friend and you got put in the zone.

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    Default Re: Is she flaking or playing hard to get???

    ^believe that guy^

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    Default Re: Is she flaking or playing hard to get???

    So I waited it out and texted her this morning, and it went much better than before.. Me: Hey can you help me out with something real quickly??? Her: Umm I cant try lol what's up Me: I cant seem to figure out what 65 plus 28 is! Her: Lol 93! I think... (93 is a nickname I gave her from this one night) Me: Haha you got it! Guess i can give you a cookie for your prize. Her: Lol I don't want a cookie. (Now here I could've put a number of different things, but the first thing in my mind that popped up was "she wants you not a damn cookie".) Me: Fine then it looks like you won yourself a free hangout with me! (Here she took a good 20min to respond) Her: Lol well I'm a busy girl! I'll have to see if I can pencil you in (Boom, she's playing along and trying to outwit me...luckily I've been doing my homework.) Me: Lemme check my schedule...your in luck! Im free thursday after 6 Her: Lol I have work late on Thursday's! Me: Yeah only other day im free is saturday for the beach trip (I planned this beach trip with some guys from my fraternity and several other sorority girls) Her: Yeah I think I'm going! Me: Sweet, so ive got (HB) down for riding with me there! Her: I can't! I have to work for a little bit that morning so I'm meeting everyone there! (She really is busy as fark, but I love it) Me: Uh oh sounds like you might cancel last minute :P (Said this because of the previous flake) Her: No I don't think so! Her: As long as I get off when I'm supposed to. But that's at 1 :/ Me: Yeah, you can make it, just prepare early...y'know workout/study/do hw/walk the dog/paint the cooler/and make the sandwiches ahead of time Her: Lol yah I'll be sure to do that! And that's where I ended it! Let me know what you guys think of round 2!


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