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    Ducktaylors is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Ok....been on a few dates with an HB8/9. She's a single mom that works full time and generally doesn't have a lot of time for getting out. So after about the 4th date,her ex hubby couldn't pick the kid up for his weekend so she had to cancel. Which puts us at a 3 week gap between dates 4 and 5. Date 4 had a lot of serious making out going on but she seemed to fizzle a bit afterwards with contact via text and phone.

    So I inboxed her on FB, to we exchanged a few letters and decided to have a nice "commitment free" NSA type of getting together arrangement. Totally down with that. So i was a little confused with this text banter we had earlier today, and just wanted some opinions from the guys here

    We were talking about someone she knows that may be a hardcore drug user and I was informing her of such


    Me: I'm not trying to make trouble an shit...but I look out for my friends...and if I didnt know my kid is going to a methadone user's crib...I'd certainly want to know

    Her: Nah man, Im grateful that ur 1.a real friend to me regardless if wer fucking or not and 2. obviously way more street smart than I! I am really gullible sometimes

    Me: Im just tryin to look out playa ; )

    Her: Haha, well thank u. I think u just forged the crown for me to be gossip queen!

    Me: Haha....ur welcome ur highness! And since we're 'true friends' now...can I borrow 100 bucks? I have to take this chick out for her b-day dinner : P ........(which is actually her)

    Her: Haha shut up! But sure, the $100 will be in the same place ur homecookd meal is. Go head. Try n find it!


    So.....what do ya think fellas? Am I getting friend zoned or is she just glad that the guy she is having sex with is being this honest with her?

    The PUAs in work think I'm golden. How about you guys?

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    Ducktaylors is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Anyone have any input?

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    steve456 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Quote Originally Posted by Ducktaylors View Post
    Ok....been on a few dates with an HB8/9. She's a single mom that works full time and generally doesn't have a lot of time for getting out. So after about the 4th date,her ex hubby couldn't pick the kid up for his weekend so she had to cancel. Which puts us at a 3 week gap between dates 4 and 5. Date 4 had a lot of serious making out going on but she seemed to fizzle a bit afterwards with contact via text and phone.

    So I inboxed her on FB, to we exchanged a few letters and decided to have a nice "commitment free" NSA type of getting together arrangement. Totally down with that. So i was a little confused with this text banter we had earlier today, and just wanted some opinions from the guys here

    We were talking about someone she knows that may be a hardcore drug user and I was informing her of such


    Me: I'm not trying to make trouble an sh1t...but I look out for my friends...and if I didnt know my kid is going to a methadone user's crib...I'd certainly want to know

    Her: Nah man, Im grateful that ur 1.a real friend to me regardless if wer farking or not and 2. obviously way more street smart than I! I am really gullible sometimes

    Me: Im just tryin to look out playa ; )

    Her: Haha, well thank u. I think u just forged the crown for me to be gossip queen!

    Me: Haha....ur welcome ur highness! And since we're 'true friends' now...can I borrow 100 bucks? I have to take this chick out for her b-day dinner : P ........(which is actually her)

    Her: Haha shut up! But sure, the $100 will be in the same place ur homecookd meal is. Go head. Try n find it!


    So.....what do ya think fellas? Am I getting friend zoned or is she just glad that the guy she is having sex with is being this honest with her?

    The PUAs in work think I'm golden. How about you guys?
    Heck No. you are in! Have you had sex yet?

    Anyway, FLIRTING keeps you out of the friend-zone. With flirting a woman with dump you or keep you. NO in Between

    seduction is art
    Last edited by steve456; 06-23-2011 at 01:52 PM. Reason: grammer

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    Ducktaylors is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Nah,haven't had sex yet....but I'm pretty certain she just implied that we will be having sex.

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    steve456 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Your in.
    Just keep doing what your doing and try to make the next meeting easy for her. (so it happens)

    No need to try anything new. What you are doing is working.

    Seduction is art.

    -Steve

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    bamboo45 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Quote Originally Posted by steve456 View Post
    Anyway, FLIRTING keeps you out of the friend-zone. With flirting a woman with dump you or keep you. NO in Between
    Can you explain this?
    Curious...

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    steve456 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by steve456
    Anyway, FLIRTING keeps you out of the friend-zone. With flirting a woman will dump you or keep you. NO in Between

    Quote Originally Posted by bamboo45 View Post
    Can you explain this?
    Curious...
    Its psychological. When you add sexual Tension to a situation, via flirting. A women has to make the decision to keep you around to see if she is going to sleep with you or dismiss you.

    You end-up not wasting time and dealing with friend-zone shyt.

    So, you have to move on,...so what! Find another girl to do the mating dance with. The girl that plays ball will build your game up. Then when you are getting women you can try for the girls that give you problems.

    Then you have to use under the radar skills to get the attraction going. The best way to do that is be funny and interesting without giving off The Vibe that you are interested. Often when you are just hella-funny and interesting the girl will stick around then eventully give you a number without you even asking for it.

    (As a youngard don't worry about the rinos .....eat some easy deer, first. Learn how women work. If you knew how women work then you would never be in the friend zone.)
    Last edited by steve456; 06-23-2011 at 04:16 PM. Reason: typo

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    Default Re: Am I getting "friend zoned"

    Agree.
    Thanks for detailed answer!


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