however, i think alot of peeps confuse Negs with insulting. Negs are meant to be playful, poking fun at something, but always end with an unexpected subtle compliment....you dont go all out to tell her she looks like a deranged cartoon character, or her nose is off centre....but you notice things about her and call her on it, "like how her nose wrinkles up just before she laughs.....seriously , look at it, she's doing it now, so you're gonna laugh any second...."
then following up when she does laugh, with something like "thats cute...brings out the playful side in you....good to know you're not all about work "
thats the way to Neg!!!