Re: She wants to fuck
Before you pull your pecker out for play, consider that women, although highly sexual creatures, know men are more focused on the subject and will use the issue to keep a man's attention or manipulate them into doing what the woman wants.
For a first meeting, don't care about getting your dick wet. If it happens, and it may, good for both of you. However, if that's your primary focus before even meeting, she'll probably expect payment when you're done.
I have failed more than most men have tried.
Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.