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    Al101 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post Facebook hb 8 really need help guys I'm losing it!!

    So I added this really great gal on facebook and I'm just getting started so I need help kn how to get the conversation going better or even get a Number Close and go on a date with her.

    This is the conversation. Let me know what I can do guys to boost up my game another level.


    Me: Hey Italian friend lol I'm Alfredo
    Her: Hey, well im Samantha but people call me Sammie
    Me: Lol has anyone told you you have like a celebrity smile, I hate you punk!! hah any plans for the summer ?
    Her: aha nope lol. well im in italy right now. after that i have no idea, just hang out i guess.
    Me: Dude u gotta send me a postcard before u come back! Lol
    Do you have family out there or r u being a tourist ?
    Her : Lol
    I have family over here
    Me: So are you gonna send me a postcard from Italy ?
    Her: i'll try too
    Me: You better not forget Italian friend haha anything crazy stories ???
    Her: crazy stories? dont think so lol
    Me:Sammie Sosa! I graduated today dude you need to come back to the states!!
    Her: thats great!!! lol im going back in 5 days.
    Me: Italy!! How's it going ?
    Never received my postcard punk, kinda heart broken now <\3
    Her: oh damnit i forgot. Its been a great, amazing actually.
    But yeah im leaving here soon
    Me: Mean girl can I ask you something ? Lol
    Her: yeah what?
    Me: can you teach me how to put on an italian accent?
    Her: i really dont know how lol
    Last edited by KristiBell; 06-01-2012 at 07:37 AM.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Facebook hb 8 really need help guys I'm losing it!!

    u got nowhere with her and she's probably thinking you're a loser.. you called her in this excerpt.. punk, dude, nigga .. NOT cool.. cut that shit out.

    your questions seems more annoying that actually demonstrating higher value and generating meaning to the situation... my guess is, she's a finished case.. no chance...

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    Al101 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Facebook hb 8 really need help guys I'm losing it!!

    Thank I needed that

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    Default Re: Facebook hb 8 really need help guys I'm losing it!!

    Still quite new at this but my feedback:

    1. You hit it off quite well and got her to respond with her name, but then you went overboard and starting asking so many questions without building on your answers. The first thing I started doing to improve my game was to ask one/two questions tops and then build off these with cold read statements. I would have made a comment/assumption based on her response, if she was above a HB 8 I would have said something like "Sammie huh, did you pick the nickname yourself, what's wrong with Samantha?"

    This would given you an insight into what motivates her a bit, she might be a bit of a tomboy or may have been given the nickname by friends and uses that as a way of fitting in etc etc.

    2. Nicknames are fine, but the 'nigga' bit is way overboard and you overdo it. Stick with one meaningful nickname that you both agree on based on something you told her about herself, or a shared interest you have.

    3. It may not be lost, I'm surprised she's still taking to you at this point. My advice is to watch Gambler's Formula for Night Game which is excellent not only for night game, but for general conversation and attraction building - Youtube search 'Gambler Formula for Night Game' it's a 1 hour 20 minute video by Richard La Ruina

    4. Never, ever ask a girl for permission to ask a question when you first meet her.

    5. Again I'm still new at this, but I'd freeze her out for a day to let the dust settle and try and come back fresh with a response like "You can't teach me to speak like an Italian? I don't believe it, you must not be a true Italian!:P" - it's bullsh1t and not a great response, but if you can get her to respond with anything that will allow u to steer the conversation to new ground that'd be progress in my book.

    Hopefully some of this helped

    *Edit*

    Also, I'd drop the lol's and don't be afraid to let a little Tension build, like Gambler says in his video "You're a man, you need to learn to ride the sexual tension". Arguably it's hard to judge/tell over Facebook, but her responses seem too unforced and friendly - from what I've read you want to start off building attraction using tension THEN move into a bit comfort THEN try for the kiss/fuck close when u meet up

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    RedZone is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Facebook hb 8 really need help guys I'm losing it!!

    Honestly, the conversation was pretty weak. Reminds me of convos where i thought I was getting somewhere but never did. You can even see by her responses that she's not really digging it fully. I could be wrong who knows, but I would at least see if she contacts you first. Otherwise, move on and try to game another chick.

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    easyflow is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Facebook hb 8 really need help guys I'm losing it!!

    Don't ever use the nigga comment again, or retard, or any racial or homophobic slur. You'll always lose points.


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