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    Silenthunter is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl hasn't been texting me lately but does it matter?

    I don't think I'm in the LJBF zone. I think she's kind of honest about her intentions here. Usually she always will respond to my texts and if she doesn't it's because of something that's came up. She's about to get surgery next week so she says that her Mom wants her to be able to use her phone to call her.

    She also says her Mom is telling her to cut down on her use of technology. We're fine aside from that though. We have perfect virtual communication between us. So, it could just be that I have been texting her too much. I know that if I talk to her on FB chat she'll always reply to me and she will even initiate conversations with me.

    She was also in a bad mood earlier because her foot is injured and she was told that her recovery time might be longer because they thought her foot was broken again in addition to it being broken before (yes, her foot really is broken). I don't think that I should assume that she's not interested in me because she recently asked me for my skype username.

    So, I assume that she still wants to talk to me. We recently talked a bit today on FB. I texted her, but, she didn't respond and on her FB status she said that she lost her phone.

    Before all of this though she was replying to mostly all of my text messages. It sounds to me that she's just going through a tough time right now and I shouldn't risk my relationship with her by bothering her when she's in a bad mood with the texts and stuff.

    I also don't want to risk ruining our near perfect virtual communication that we have with each other... I don't think I have anything to worry about here do I?

    Could she be doing the skype thing as a compromise perhaps because she might not want me to feel so bad about her not replying to my texts or something like that? I get the hint that she wants to keep the relationship that we have going (we're not exactly friends, we're close acquaintances, and towards the end of last year we started hanging out).

    So, I'm just wondering what you people think. This is a relationship I want to keep. I don't want to risk it because of us not being so good at not text-messaging each other. I also know that she will also respond to requests of mine to hang out if we do it over FB chat, so, I have a fallback if texting doesn't work for us.

    A I'm just going to assume for now that her current predicament and what she is going through in her life right now is keeping her from texting as much as she normally does. So, I just was wondering... does it really matter if she isn't replying to them in my case? I know for most people it would if their primary means of communication was through text, but, our primary means of communication usually has been through FB chat. And, I don't want to risk our relationship by bothering her with texts a lot when she doesn't have the time, or, isn't able to reply. She's usually an honest and reliable person, and, I know her outside of FB, so, it's not that big of a deal.

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    Default Re: Girl hasn't been texting me lately but does it matter?

    Lol, it turns out that she just texted me back right after I posted this (as if she has eyes and can read whatever I post on the internet). She responded to my question... and she also didn't seem bothered about the fact that I was sending her too many texts. She just said that she just turned on her phone and she sees 15 messages, lol. I responded to what she said and then rather than just apologizing, I said sometimes I can be a little anxious and that I'll be more conscious of my texting in the future. Did I handle that well? I think she was trying to save face for me while not being too mad at me for it, and, I recognized my mistake and said I would change it without over-apologizing or anything.
    Last edited by Silenthunter; 07-07-2011 at 11:35 PM.


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