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    Default BEST OPENER ON FB

    I put this in the online section but i thought it should be better in the FB section

    every time i give a girl a complement on facebook it works only when i complement her clothes or energy she gives in her picture

    that's the best opener i found that gives me a good one on one messege conversation with a girl

    i just have to figure out how to transition from there to a date

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    This also applies to real in person.. I sometimes use a compliment on clothes or hair style as an opener, (it isn't my main opening), but it does intrigue girls. They look at you differently that moment on because you aren't saying, "Omg your picture is so HOT, your bod is great." You aren't one of the usual guys at that moment.

    For instance, girl at Barnes and Noble had cute short hair. I complimented her hair, said it looked nice short. She put on the biggest smile.
    Another example... I am at a house party, girl had this weird looking outfit on but I liked it. It was almost 80's retro but with a today vibe. I went up to her and said... "I really like your style" (referring to her clothes)
    That same night, when I was leaving the house party, she came up to me and asked me where I was going, told her to a bar, and she came.

    I would compliment a girls sense of style. It truly is a great compliment because how long do girls take on getting ready to go out. HOURS.
    So rather than telling them are hot, tell them their style is hot, or nice or you enjoy it

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    I totally agree with Hyde. Think of a time when someone random has came up to you and given you a random compliment. If it's genuine it can make a persons day and keep them smiling. Genuine compliments win, every time.

    Transitioning to a date is easy. Control the conversation. Get to know her. Make her want you.

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    Eh, tried this. Didn't work for me.

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    Practice more and it will work
    When you compliment they'r style you need to mean it,don't just use it to get in they'r pants.....women notice it

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    I am going to be perfectly honest here...I couldn't disagree more. Do women like to be compliemented? Yes. Should we use that as an opener? Hell No. I did notice that you mentioned complimenting something that was at least other than her over all beauty. This is always a step in the right direction, but I do disagree.
    The problems I see with this theory are many but also can be broken down into one simple statement. By doing this, you do what every woman expects to hear; and what every other man in the world says to her on a daily basis. We are talking about a hb 9 or so I am assuming...I mean we are PUA's here (well supposed to be) - meaning there is no reason to be picking up any other type...when approaching a HB, she will be expecting the same old routine (she gets it, she's beautiful) regardless of how meaningful you make it. This is one of the reasons why you never compliment a girl on her beauty or style, you compliment an inattimate object like her shoes. This is why we neg them (your nose wiggles when you laugh), to make them realize we don't find them that attractive. Look, the best way I can explain this is as follows....I call this the Pitch Freeze Out...whenever I am somewhere and there is a set I want to approach, I ALWAYS pick up the fat/ugly/less attractive one in the set first. ALWAYS. This will keep the ugly one from thinking she's a third wheel in a set and becoming a CB, actually, she'll fight to keep you around because she's not used to attention. At the same time, the HB who is always used to guys approaching, will wonder why you are the only man in the room who hasn't offered to buy her a drink while complimenting her on her beauty and ignoring the fat one. It will drive her crazy to the point where she will start trying to get your attention. Whenever the HB in this situation tries to get my attention, I usually throw a couple negs at her before I begin to transition over to the HB. This will not only confuse/upset her even more but it will make the less attractive one more acceptable to the idea of you and the HB spending some time alone in a few minutes. Remember, the idea here is to be unpredictable. You must keep girls on their toes, keep them confused, while at the same time letting them think they have a little control over the situation. The minute a girl thinks she has you figured out she's bored. This is why we run routines; this is why we do freeze outs; this is why we do neg hits. All of these theories are proven ways to do one thing, throw her off her balance...then we add value, and so on. The only way to get rid of a woman's first thought in her head "who is this guy, what does he want, how long until he goes away" is to be NOT like every other AFC.

    Pitch

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    What about mixing a compliment with some negging ? Ex. giving a compliment on what she likes or says, but negging on her looks. That could be a way to establish some connection but not as a potential suitor. And it should attract her curiosity.

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    This is going to sound absolutely ridiculous, but what the hell, (this is 100% true by the way)

    So we all know each individual person has there own way of playing things. I personally dont like diving straight in with a compliment (it raises her esteem and she may feel above my league etc etc)

    Anyway, i thought i'd try this out on a girl i had been interested in for a while. NOTE- choose your target before using this, otherwise you will look like a weirdo...

    'Me and a mate are having a debate. Who would win in a fight, a bear, or a lion?'

    Anyway to cut a long story short, she responded VERY well (i got her number and a meet next week with her).

    Let me know what you guys think- all critque welcome

    sarge
    If you dont ask, you wont get.

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    Yeah ive found that complimenting a girl on her hair, like say shes just changed the colour of her hair saying that it looks nice does work better than just saying that she looks hot its worked a few times for me, i think its because women spend a lot of time and care for their hair so they like to know that their effort is noticed

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    Default Re: BEST OPENER ON FB

    Hmm you all had quite interesting responses, I personally think it all comes back to what type of girl you are trying to use an opener on and if it is a girl who is used to random adds and genuine compliments from random guys without fear of rejection behind a PC screen, Then I'd agree with Pitch, like in a social environment in real life you should think up something witty and calibrated to her type before hand and stand out from the crowd. Not just give her a compliment and give her leverage. Which is similar to what sarge said with the random bear and lion question seeking her intellectual response. But I also largely disagree with pitch. Cause Then again there are drop dead gorgeous HB10 and HB9's that because of how beautiful they are most guys are intimidated to talk to or dont even bother with or she may not of been a Target for a confident and charming guy yet, Which is how I actually met my last girlfriend who I cared very much about and had a pretty long and meaningful relationship with which started talking off facebook. She was friends with another girl I was seeing at the time, I straight up gave her a direct compliment about her beauty after adding her and told her my honest oppinion of how gorgeous she was and how her pictures blew me away. It all comes back to, What type of girl is she? If she is from your town sus her out ask some mutual friends about her, or simply stalk out what you can find about her through her privacy settings. Then think of something genuine and intrigueing that would suit the type of girl she is.

    Another great way to intrigue random girls on facebook I have found is by Poking. I have about 50 girls poking me back and fourth everyday some... well about 20% that I have never met before and just continuosly poke, waiting for her to start a conversation and be like "who is this guy nd why is he randomly poking me!?" If you have a good reason for why you first poked her or flip it and be like well why are you poking me back...? when she asks or starts talking to you then you can flip the scrip and get her chasing you early on in your interactions with her. I hope this has helped (:


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