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    Default Re: Bartender

    Thanks for your reply again.

    The only issue is, is that I only see her at her work and there is always a bar in between us
    I told her I don't think it's a good idea to go out as long as she has a BF...so not sure what it will look like if I do invite her to a party next time...

    Just for the record I invited her to go to a club with me and my friends before but she couldn't make it that day. She promised me that she will be there next time. Then she invited me last Friday and I told her it's better if I don't go, since I don't want to bring her in the temptation to do something 'bad'.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Yea, you gotta get her out've there, that is for sure, if anything she's looking at a source of tips she doesn't want to piss off. Not to mention you've probly got your crew their.... also tipping. Maybe try inviting her to something a bit more classy.

    Just one night tell her your going to (something cool, like goto the monster truck rally) but your friend had a (something that wasn't her just bailling on you) happen, so now you've got an extra ticket.... it'd be a shame to let it goto waste.

    the only reason I say monster truck rally is... it's super loud, so you'll constantly be leaning in to talk, which makes kissing her 10 times easier, after Ktesting her. Any venue will do tho.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Working on bartenders is a tricky proposition. They have dozens of guys hitting on them every minute. They don't want to piss off a good tipper / regular income stream. Management may also have rules about employee conduct.

    I used to nail a bartender. She was very sweet. I got her home by being the one guy in her world who wasn't hitting on her. So, she started talking to me out of curiosity. This approach may be too late for you now.

    At this point, you have to get her out of the bar environment so you can Isolate her and get her wondering why she's with a guy that cheated on her and how she thinks that relationship will turn out for her.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    I had a thread on this.. called.. "Bartender Help" .. see if anything in there is worthy of your time. I succeeded in the end, I hope you do.

    cheers.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Thanks for all the replies.

    Let me just update this thread with what happened yesterday.

    So like I already said in my last post, after Saturday I felt like texting her. I texted her how she was doing. She told me she was at work, 5 minutes later I got another text asking me to come by and keep her company. I told her I don't like the bar in between us all the time and that I would rather have her sit next to me or on my lap.

    I guess that was all that I needed cause after that text she really opened up. She told me she would rather not have a bar in between us either. She asked me what I was up to later that night (it was already 11pm). I told her I was in bed already but that we could meet up sometime this week. She responded with: "awwww I thought we would go someplace".

    She also kept calling me hottie, sexy etc. Something she never did before...We agreed to meet on Tuesday, we haven't set up something specific yet though.

    Today she texted me to wish me a happy Birthday. I just texted her to try and set something up for tomorrow...

    Will be continued...

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Well done! What are your plans for her tomorrow?

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Allright, keep doing what your doing. Hopefully she works on tuesday, this will give you the perfect op, for taking her on a midnight walk through the park. You got this.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Thanks guys.

    I'm picking her up at 8pm tonight. We are going to the beach, I know of this awesome park at the beach with a great view, very romantic place.

    Probably going for a drink after at this really nice lounge (even though she doesn't drink)

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Well played, Steel-O.....game is definitely on. You got this. Stay sharp and focused, and tell us how it goes.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    good luck mate, looking forward to your next report


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