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    Update:
    So I picked her up at 8pm. My stomach was kinda hurting, usually I'm not (that) nervous for dates but I guess I was for this one. As soon as I saw her that feeling was gone and I was totally myself.

    We took my car to the beach which was like a 25 min drive. She talked the entire drive, she just didn't stop. When we got there we sat down at one of the benches and continued talking, the conversation was still very serious.

    Then I asked her if she was down for a walk on the beach. It was super dark and no lights, I asked if she trusted me and finally I was able to joke around a little bit. She really laughed at my jokes like a girl that is into you. I touched her shoulder a few times just to start some Kino.

    We went to this lounge and had a nice private seat in the corner of the place. I asked her why she was here. A few weeks ago I asked her out and she told me she would love to get to know me better but she couldn't go on a date with me because of her BF. Her BF is also the father of her two kids btw. She didn't give me a straight answer and kept saying that she always wanted to hangout with me, but after a few minutes she finally gave me the real reason. She made the decision of breaking up with her BF a while ago and was never this close of actually really break up with him. And the fact that she really likes me and that's why she was ready to go on a date. She told me she really likes me and that I'm the first guy she went out with again.

    I told her I was sorry about her situation and gave her a good hug. The rest of the night I had my hand on her leg and was holding her hand the rest of the night. I could tell she felt comfortable cause she was holding my hand too.

    When we got back to her car we stayed in my car for a little bit. We listened and talked about music. I got to hug her like 3 times, because every single time she was suppose to leave my car she started talking again lol. When I hugged her the first time I asked her if a kiss is cheating...She said no, I kissed her on her cheek and gave her a kiss on her mouth.

    I told her to text me when she got home. She texted me thank you for the night and that she hopes to see me soon...


    Not the greatest live report I know...but the results are definitively there. I'm sure I will see her again soon.

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    Well played, bro. When do you plan to call / text her again? I would give it a little bit of time--but not too much. You don't want to seem too eager. If she gives you a hard time for not touching base with her immediately (like the very next day), tell her that you are trying to be respectful of her situation. Add in that you care about her well being, and don't want to be too pushy while she's getting herself straightened out. This should make you look like a nice, decent and well-balanced guy.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    well played but i think you could have been a little more direct in sealing the deal. make her want you and lust after you otherwise she could just dismiss the situation as a weakness on her part and end up going back to her ex-bf

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    Default Re: Bartender

    It depends on what he wants from this chick.....if it's a quick hook up, you're probably right. Either way, her ex-bf is her babies' daddy. He will likely be in the picture no matter what. Just another M-Fer you're gonna have to deal with Steel-O...

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    Default Re: Bartender

    This girl is cool and I like her. So, not just to hook up with. Her BF is the father of her kids, it def makes it a little more complicated for her. They also still live together too.

    She is going to break up with him, she made this decision a while back but for some reason she hasn't done it yet. She told me she is closer than ever of making the step.

    Obviously I'm not going to sit around and wait for her. I'm confident she will chase me, she really seems into me.

    I will give her some time to take care of her whole situation. I just have to make sure I'm not going to be her rebound guy. So I don't think it's a bad idea to take things slow with her in this particular situation while I still see other girls in the mean while.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    I feel you played it safe and you played it well .. I extend my kudos to you man.

    Definately complications there, so this one would take time.... which you seem to be patient about anyways ....

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    Yup....play it slow and work toward what you want. I'm sure it will build her desire for you. In the meantime, there are others available.....

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Thanks guys.

    I will keep you guys posted about the whole situation.

    I went to the bar she works at tonight with a guy and a girl.

    Not much that happened, at one point i texted her that she looked good and she texted back that I did too with a smiley. At one point I told her I was leaving and was about to leave but she told me she wanted a hug so she came to the other side of the bar to give me hug.

    Will be continued...

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    Default Re: Bartender

    Nice.....stay with it.

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    Default Re: Bartender

    yeah, all sounds good well played mate


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