This week I'll be going on a group date with her and two other couples. We are going to a lounge to have dinner and some drinks.
My plan is to have an awesome time at dinner, but after dinner on the way home I wanna bring up her BF and kids issue.
What I'm gonna tell her is this: "I'm not comfortable going on dates with you while you're still in a relationship. I also don't think it's right for me to do this. I feel a connection too(she told me she felt there is a connection), but you will have to figure out your situation first. I don't want to be the reason of a family break up, even though you already made the decision awhile ago, it will prob still feel like that."
Besides the fact that I mean everything I'm going to tell her, I also think it will make me look really good and mature. I guess that she will be even more into me after me telling her that. It shows I'm a goodhearted person, that I'm mature and that I have respect for other people and their situations they are in.
What do you guys think?