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  1. #1
    Charrua89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Shit Test Help

    Alright so the other day I #-closed this girl I went to middle school off of facebook, kind of by accident. I really don't know her at all but it was her bday so I sent her a message saying happy birthday, and her response was to invite me to some club. I turned it down because I already had plans but asked her to give me her number to plan something for the weekend.

    So today I began to text her. Here's the conversation, it would be great if someone could tell me how to improve and what to do next.

    Me 2:42pm: Hey there!!

    HB 2:46pm: Hi

    Me 2:52pm: If you're like me, u celebrate the bday for at least a week. So hows the birthday week going?

    Than I got no response until 3:44 when she texts me "Call me 911"

    So I go ahead and call her since maybe she needs help, I don't know why she would ask me, but whatever. Anyway I ask her whats wrong since she texted me saying to call her immediately and she tells me that it was an accident and that text was supposed to go to her daughter. She than asks me what I am doing and I told her that I really couldn't talk now since I was at work (which was true). So than I text her 10 minutes later saying:

    Me 3:54pm: That was weird lol..made my day a little more interesting

    HB: Lol sorry

    Me: Its ok. What did u say, u had a son?

    HB: I have a baby girl

    Me: Oo thats cool how old?

    HB: 4

    Anyway the conversation continued like that for a while, us getting to know each other but her responses were always pretty short. Here were our last texts:

    Me 7:44pm: A woman of few words lol..what post-birthday festivities do u have planned for the weekend?

    HB 8:39am: Ok I just got up and looked at all are texts I am not a woman of few words I am just complicated at times and text u in one to thou

    Looking back on the conversation, there is really no game at all, its all very conservative. So long story short, I'm trying to improve my text game and that last text definitely looks like a shit test and actually has her qualifying herself a little. It cuts off at the end so I'm not exactly sure what she is trying to say but what I am wondering is how should I respond to this. I think I may just be one good text away from making some real good progress.
    Last edited by Charrua89; 07-30-2011 at 07:57 AM.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    i think you have failed yourself, take note and move on.

    you are more than a good text away from good progress bud. she's responding you with closed ended responses and one sentence responses...

    work on humour and try to have more fun with the next one.

  3. #3
    Charrua89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    Actually I wasn't out of it because my response to her last text was:

    Me: Oh sweetie, you know it would never work between me and you. I don't do compicated, I only do complex

    Which actually led her to call me. In the phone call she told me that I was mean for saying that (a playful tease from her) and that she was going to see me tonight.

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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    If she wanted to see you after that...She has to be pretty into you. I am not trying to dis you man, but your text game was pretty weak there.

    Also, She wouldn't be texting a 4 year old.... so she definitely meant for you to get that text, and it was a Sh1t Test to be sure. She wanted to see if she had you on lock and if you would call her right away.

    Also, when you first start texting a girl, try not to text her back so promptly. 4 min. between your first two texts looks sort of desperate. I am not calling you desperate, I am just telling you how it looks.

    Good luck hanging out with her. The fact that she called you is a really good sign. Unless she just wants to be friends. Girls with kids usually are pretty easy though.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    In The Tropics.. true say I was gonna point out those points....

    I teach these kids swimming and their mom is single and she's watching in a bikini and offering me beers and to stay for dinner and such.. definately easier if they are a young single mom....

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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    I don't start texts with "hey there" because I would not start a verbal conversation with "hey there."

    A simple "Hi. say what you want to say" will do fine. No need for a million texts. Also, be more creative... don't interrogate women... it's boring to them.

    I hate when women ask me (within the first minute of meeting them) "So where are you from?", "What kind of work do you do?", "Do you have kids?" It's boring to me and therefore I do not do it to them. I'll ask those questions once I determine if the woman has an attractive personality and is worth really getting to know.

    - Spool

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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    and yes... As In The Tropics put it: Girls with kids usually are pretty easy.

    Good luck with it and be sure to report back to us how it goes.

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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    Actually this girl is Girl 1 from this other post I made http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...html#post25588

    I'm actually thinking about responding to her with something relating to the original text that sparked the interest, the one saying I don't do complicated, I only do complex. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Facebook Girl Help

    hahaha


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