To cut a long story short, number closed girl on train home from work a while back, been on 2 dates. First date was ok, second date went well. After we had arranged the third date, she cancels the day before. She then texts me a few days later (Tuesday night) and after the initial few texts, the conversations goes as follows:
Please note I have been unable to include all smiley faces so I have put spaces in between the brackets instead.
HB: Wednesday 08.54 Which side do u think is hidden? Do you think thereís more to me than I give away?
Me: 11.26 I think thereís a more mischievous side to u : ) Is there more to u than u give away, are u on ur best behaviour with me ; )
HB: 11.53 Iím never on my best behaviour : )
Me: 12.53 Oh reallyÖ.? So what naughty things have u been up to ; )
HB: 13.06 That would be telling ; )
Me: 14.02 Hmmm whatís the naughtiest thing uíve ever done, tell me a secret ; )
HB: 14.03 You tell me first
Me: 14.04 Ladies firstÖ.
HB: 14.05 Stolen carling pumps from student union, in front of bar staff and placed them as souvenirs in our student house : )
Me: 14.11 Thatís only a 5 on a scale of 1-10 of naughtiness lol, thought u were a naughty girl! I once copied formulas on to my calculator case during an exam at uni : )
HB: 16.35 Thatís not naughty
Me: 18.03 Iíve been naughtier ; ) So how are u going to make it up to me for cancelling last week : )
HB: 22.02 Tell me how naughty youíve been?
Me: 22.38 Well how naughty would u have liked me to be ; )
HB: 07.40 I donít know the naughtiest?
Me: 08.12 That would be too explicit as ur a good Indian girl : ) (In an earlier text she had used the phrase that she is a good Indian girl) (Iím white btw)
HB: 12.13 Tell me Iím all ears : )
Me: All I can say is it may involve a girl ; ) So ur a naughty Indian girl tut tut
How should I have done better and escalated this sexually? At what point in the texting should I have been explicit and started escalating? What should I have replied to her texts where she asked me how naughty, or how should I have got her to be more sexual?
She didnít reply to me after my last text so I blew it!