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    bruceleestatus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Started Dating but now things are weird?

    So recently I met a girl that I had a massive crush on 10 years ago at a friend's gathering. She was a friend of a friend but i didn't know her well before and she had a boyfriend at the time. Now she actually works for a friend of mine. In any case, so now I asked her out to dinner, things went well so afterwards we had a nice all day date with going to a art gallery, dinner, her house and movies (her dad was home so we didn't do anything there besides her showing me her garden). then we had 3 more dates after that.

    So being a relatively AFC i haven't made any moves yet so we have yet to hold hands or have any kind of Kino (besides her kinda jumping on me during the movie at the scary parts), I had arranged a date with her to go to a art show next to the beach where i was hoping to move forward and least kino or maybe a kiss.

    Now the weird thing is, during the last date i had taken her out to sushi and she loved it, all was well but at the end of the date i kinda sensed a more friendship vibe instead of a dating vibe for some reason. Then as I called her to confirm the sunday date she told me that she had invited a mutual guy friend of ours and hoped i didn't mind, and that she would be up late so she'll let me know when would be a good time for us to leave. So i text her at night giving her a time that we should leave at. She doesn't respond till the next morning with a text telling me she's really sorry and she's super tired and she hopes that i'm not upset. I was going to text her back but then she called me and gave me the reason that she was up all night talking to her mom who's just flown back home (which i did know about), i said it's cool and we'll work something out next time and then we hung up.

    I'm very confused =T i thought the girl was pretty into me earlier this week when she texted me asking how my day was, and we've been going out to dinner / dates for 2 weeks now. Now withe way she's cancelling the date it feels like she's blowing me off? but in a nice way? I can't tell...I'm also not sure what I should do in this situation. I'm thinking that I don't call her till like 2 days afterwards to arrange another dinner?

    What do you guys think? any recommendations? Am I just overanalyzing the situation or is she losing interest? if she's losing interest why and how should i approach to regain her interest and move forward with the relationship? Any input would be gladly appreciated!

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    Default Re: Started Dating but now things are weird?

    I can't give you any advice about how to get her more into you again.

    But from my own experience, you need to Kino right from the first date, even when it's very basic stuff. But not using any KINO at all is really really bad, especially since you have already gone onto a few dates with her. No KINO, no progress!

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    Default Re: Started Dating but now things are weird?

    Hey Bruce,

    I've got some ideas that might help you and some reasons things could have cooled off over the week. but you posted this a week ago and i don't want to waste my time writing a detailed reply if you're not in this situation anymore, or if it's changed significantly.

    post here tonite or tomorrow and i'll try to get back to you here tomorrow by afternoon.

    and DO NOT contact her between then and now, and don't 'accidentally' bump into her through mutual friends or ask mutual friends what the deal is with her.

    just chill, and wait for my advice... you might be able to resurrect this.

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    Default Re: Started Dating but now things are weird?

    Waited too long, don't call her for 3 weeks, then call her up and ask her to help you pickout a shirt, take her to the store, game on her there. many good things you can do when trying on clothes, but this will give you a chance for a fresh start in which you can Kino.


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