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    Default Can't hold interest + bad text game? Need Help!

    Below I put a text conversation with a HB I met through a friend. I feel I have lost the power in this "relationship". Before our first date we were texting back and forth on Friday and Saturday trying to find a good time to meet (we both had fluctuating schedules so many texts were necessary to coordinate and talking wasn’t an option from where I was most of the day). She would respond 90% of the time within 30 minutes and they were very long and fun. I would be fun, flirty saying things like “You are going to want to ditch your friends to hang out with me; I’m way more fun”.

    Date 1: 2 drinks on a Saturday night was the plan.
    What actually happened: 6 hours at 5 different bars with ioi’s, Kino escalations, and a kiss close. Last thing she said to me was “You have soft lips”, smiled, and we parted ways. This was 7/23 (Saturday).

    Date 2: Well, my attempt at getting one. .
    (First – I called on 7/27, left a voicemail to call me back about this weekend. . . the next day I started this text conversation; She's a busy girl, my type)

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    ME Thur 7/28 11:11am
    Hey Guitar Hero (she loves to play the guitar), how's work/school? I'm going to cause a little trouble Friday night and I think you should be a part of it! Thoughts?

    HB Thur 7/28 8:45pm
    Hey there, how's it goin? i've actually got to work fri night for home health (she’s an occup. Therapist and current student) but thanks 4 the heads up & have a good time

    ME Thur 7/28 9:45pm
    Well, I hope my “replacement date” doesn’t feel me up as much as you did! How did your presentation go?

    HB Thur 7/28 10:04pm
    aHaha :P Miranda (mutual friend) keeps telling me it was really good so that's makin me feel good since it was my LAST one! Woooo! Well have fun, i'll be spending my fri w/an 80 yr old woman who I have to keep from calling the cops approx once an hr (so I’m told). :P : )

    ME Thur 7/28 10:06pm
    As an FYI there were 2 ":P" in your previous message. Proportionately, I don't remember seeing your tongue that much on Saturday. Just sayin.

    HER Thur 7/28 10:18pm
    hehehe : - )
    (She gave me nothing to go off of so I didn’t want to reward her for a lame text back).

    2 DAYS LATER
    ME Sat 7/30 12:14pm
    When are you available tomorrow?


    HB Sat 7/30 6:44pm
    Hey i'm actually working on my last 10-pg paper 2mrw & havin coffee w/a friend during my break time, but happy weekend 2 u : )

    ME Sat 7/30 9:07pm
    Oooh, mistext : ). I'm not even in town tomorrow. But it works out, I see.
    (I was trying to play this off as if I mistexted her and was trying for someone else; I thought it was clever as I was into 6 hours of a bachelor party. . was probably drunk when I said this; HB didn’t know I was a bachelor party, though).

    2 DAYS LATER
    ME Mon 8/1 11:58am
    10 pg paper? In 20 pt font, right? I'll be in town a bunch starting Thurs and I'd like to service your desire to see me again. How is your week/end looking?

    1 DAY LATER (tonight)
    HB Tue 8/2 7:29pm
    Oh heyyy i'm actually working the whole weekend in home health where i'm w/the client for 48 hrs straight. :P wish me luck!


    This is where it currently stands

    Is there anything glaringly good or terrible in here?
    I feel this should be easier if she was truely interested; may she could have proposed a different date?
    Tips? or should I pull out?


    I'm pretty desperate here with this one example, I really thought she'd have potential. . ..maybe is salvagable?

    Holding a woman's interest after date #1 seems to be a BIG WEAKNESS in my game and it may be related to my text game. Would love some expert PUA input.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Can't hold interest + bad text game? Need Help!

    I feel you tried to apply too many techniques within the text messages, I would rather have you do a few things:

    a) not pretend you were drunk and mistext her, because first it's sent @ 12:14pm, who the fark gets smashed then.. probably a very not-so-classy guy.

    b) text her saying, "cool, enjoy that date with the paper, but if you got a few minutes, call me for a 2 minute chat. If you're lucky I may catch my phone.

    c) bust her balls for seeing a patient for 48 hours.. something like .. "I heard it's illegal to have personal time with patients...." .. something funny.

    d) you shouldn't have texted her so soon, when she didn't reach you.. it made you look slightly needy.

    I feel there's a lot of casual talking, dodging seeing you again.. but at least her replies are somewhat lengthy.. but that doesn't necessarily mean anything.

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    Default Re: Can't hold interest + bad text game? Need Help!

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    d) you shouldn't have texted her so soon, when she didn't reach you.. it made you look slightly needy.

    Are you referring to the beginning when I called her? If so, how long should i have waited? Should i just start with text messaging in general and skip the inital phone call?

    So i tried "too many" techniques? man, this stuff is tough to master .

    I'll try your suggested text tomorrow mid-day/eve and see where it gets me. . . . . Not sure if I can salvage this.

    Thanks for your tips!

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    Default Re: Can't hold interest + bad text game? Need Help!

    wait.. at least 5 days....

    dont let technology fool you, girls appreciate talk time than text.. texting is for short and sweet mind attacks, but talking on the phone is more interactive and personal.

    too many techniques, because in the end, you are making up sh1t, we dont need to make up stuff to look better....

    try out some of the stuff and lemme know how it goes.


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