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    cythe is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default what to do when they friend request you??

    What is a good line to say to a girl that you had a small conversation negged her at a party first time meeting her and she added me on facebook the next day... What is the best thing to say I was thinking something cocky and funny but I can't think of anything???

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    I usually make things into an inside joke kind of thing. I turn it into cocky funny as well.
    For instance, this weekend, went out in NYC.
    Don't really remember the name of the bar but they played a lot of 80's, 90's, rock and mainstream stuff. Sang along to a bunch of songs. danced on girls, etc.
    Opened up about 4 sets, but was interested in 1 of the girls in the sets.
    dhv by chatting up others girls, asking them to dance with me, and the 1 I was interested in kept giving me the side eye looking at me. So I eventually went back over to her.
    Ended up number closing.. So, she actually hit me up via text that night about 30 minutes after the bar closed. I kept it short with a reply, saying it was nice meeting her etc.
    Today, I texted her (in your case you would facebook message)... I said... "Hey uptown girl, how you been?"
    - The reason I called her uptown girl, as before stated, they were playing a lot of 80's rock and billy joel came on. She and I were singing it together. So I gave her that nickname. What this does, is give me an inside kind of joke with her. I also opened the text up with that, not saying, hey do you remember me or anything. Opening it up this ways helps them ease into the convo. She realizes, I remember him, he was different. It also creates a feeling of ease as you two already have something established. Secondly, she responds back, and I go with a cocky funny response when she asked me what I was doing. I said, "figuring out who can beat me at my early 80's rock music lyric knowledge." This opened her to say she could take me on, and this also opened up to us meeting up again, either Thursday or Friday at the same bar to see who is better.

    None of us on here were with you that night you met the girl. But I would find something the two of you could relate to, make it your inside joke. And then throw in a cocky funny remark in there.

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    this happened to me recently, she gave me her number but she either one of the digits was wrong so when i texted her a few days later i got no reply but the next day she found and added me on facebook. i never accepted it but i sent her a message why she never replied but would add me on facebook, we realized the accident and then she asked me why i never added her so i said something along the lines of "i met you once, i dont add strangers on facebook but tell you what... ill accept the friend request after we go out on our first date (assuming it goes well lol)"

    first and only time ive tried it and it was successful so try something along those lines out. i wish i had thought of this before cause this situation had happened to me like 3 times before i thought of it.

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    @dchen19
    A good way to avoid the mixed up number is to text her immediately when she gives you the number. I did it just today. A woman gave me her cell number and I said I'll text you right now so you have mine as well and sent it right then in front of her. She then entered my info in her phone. The advantage here is you get to get a read on her through the process. If her phone doesn't beep then you know she gave you bad number and can make appropriate adjustments. If she has a sh1t eating grin then you are golden! She obviously wanted your number and you have successfully captured her interest and can move to the next level.
    Last edited by Achilles; 08-08-2011 at 11:15 PM.

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    What was the neg you used? How did she react? It will help to come up with a reply.

    ~Achilles

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    Honestly I don't remember exactly what I said but I will try to recollect everything ... I approached a group of girls she was standing there I said you work at mcdonalda don't you (she had a shirt on that looked like mcdonalds uniform) .
    . She said no I don't and told me where she worked like she was trying to impress mme I smiled like a half smile and walked away and didn't talk to her the rest of the party .. Then she added me on facebook the next day I never said anything cuz I didn't kno what to say? ?

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    Quote Originally Posted by cythe View Post
    Honestly I don't remember exactly what I said but I will try to recollect everything ... I approached a group of girls she was standing there I said you work at mcdonalda don't you (she had a shirt on that looked like mcdonalds uniform) .
    . She said no I don't and told me where she worked like she was trying to impress mme I smiled like a half smile and walked away and didn't talk to her the rest of the party .. Then she added me on facebook the next day I never said anything cuz I didn't kno what to say? ?
    Throw in a joke about the McDonald's thing. Make it a joke, funny and quirky but not outright mean either.

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    Nicely done lol. McDonald's uniform was a stroke of genius. That and the cold shoulder for the rest of the party obviously worked. With the McD's thing you have an inside joke and an endless supply of material for awkward moments, "I'm hungry, can I get a BigMac meal with fries."
    You can also, make it more sexual when the time is right. A couple soft serve cones and a warm pie for dessert.
    Keep updates coming on this one. So many possibilities. You should have fun with this one. Haha McD's uniform.... I'm Lovin It!

    ~Achilles

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    I went to send her a message she was online so it was facebook chat I said hey your online I was just thinkin bout some mcyd's you wanna bring me some lol, did you have fun at the party the other night I know I did lol.

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    Default Re: what to do when they friend request you??

    Havent got a reply back I hate facebook chat especially on a Droid because half time I don't get my messages or they don't get 'em but stupid thing wouldn't lemme send regular message so if I don't get shit back what should I do send another message when she is not online or just let it go? ?


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