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    Default Text back to no response?

    I've been texting this HB8-ish from an online daitng site, so I haven't meet her but wouldn't mind meeting up cause she seems kool.

    We've been texting back and forth, then she didn't respond for like 6 hours, resumes the conversation like nothing happened. I wait 3 hours after she sent it saying ..'

    Me: Don't play hard to get with a man who's hard to get

    her: Who's playing?

    Me: Obviously not the cute girl that just texted me x

    Her; Clearly! All sweet girls hsould be a bit coy anyways

    Me: I never sensed you as coy ... but maybe a little bit naughty

    No response back (a full day later almost) ... I noticed I sounded a little needy with all the farking emicons but I sensed that I wanted to get my point across.

    I haven't texted back but I was thinking about doing it tomorrow, think that's a smart idea?

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    Default Re: Text back to no response?

    You didn't just sound needy but you kinda made yourself look bad by calling yourself a "hard to get man." That sort of stuff is weak and only makes you look bad with women to be your own self promoter.

    you didn't sound needy with the emicons you sounded GAY! That's the sort of stuff a nice guy would use. I never use emicons those are for girls.

    You also need to learn to bail when a conversation is dying. She bailed on you by ignoring you and you need to do the same with women.

    The moment you sense a conversation is going stale you say

    "anyway I gotta go do/meet with/etc et, lates"

    At least that way you end the conversation, you show her you're busy, you are in command of when it ends. Now she is in command, she looks the busy one while you're here typing and wondering why she hasn't replied!

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    Default Re: Text back to no response?

    A lot of online game is tough if you never met the person to throw in the cocky/funny right away as you did. It can just come off as cocky, and not funny.

    Emicons are kind of lame. Definitely don't use them, unless its a sexual innuendo. Then it might slide (but that also depends if you have built up to that level)

    I definitely agree with the above post, end things on your own terms. I ALWAYS do this. Example, "Hey, I got to go... ttyl."
    I even sometimes add something I am doing that is so trivial to show her that whatever trivial thing I am doing is making me end the conversation with her to go do this trivial thing. For instance, read a book. Sounds stupid, but it works.
    Met a girl online, built awesome rapport via texts and messages. Met up for coffee eventually, and first time we hung out, we made out. I actually wanted to leave and she came over to my car to ask if I knew the way home. I said yeah I do have GPS. She then got into my car and made out with me.
    Anyways, where I was going was that everytime i texted or talked with this girl, the conversations ended on my term. Every night or every day. You have to be in control of when she can talk to you.

    Another example, met a girl in a NYC bar this weekend. Number closed. She texted me right away, made a little joke about me being from New Jersey. I made a joke about her being from northern New Jersey. Right after, I said, "Hey, nice meeting ya but I am off to get some pizza. I'll ttyl. Goodnight."
    Next day, she texts me again asking how my pizza was.

    Don't ever let the conversation get to a dead end. End it before it does. That is the WORST thing to deal with and it feels awkward for not only you, but her as well. Once that conversation gets to a stale mate, she looks at you like, "Hmm, he is kinda boring and not interesting me anymore."

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    Default Re: Text back to no response?

    Hey thanks for the awesome feedback you guys. I've been out of the texting game for quite awhile so I wanted to get some practice in on this chick. But for the points you guys made above,
    I definatley facepalmed myself for being so stupid.

    Above all else it's a learning experience and I still have a long way to go.

    Quick question, any good books/threads on building rapport with someone?

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    Default Re: Text back to no response?

    The best way to build rapport, I found, is to just go out there and try. Getting out there, and even talking with a complete stranger to just strike up a conversation and get connected has built it up in me to just be able to build up connections and rapport out in the bar and club setting.

    Everything takes practice and patience. You can read all you want, but the moment you apply what you read is the moment you begin to learn what works, what doesn't, how to tweak what didn't work for you, etc.


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