Some background: I'm 30 y/o and she's 27. We messed around when we were teenagers but haven't spoken until last week. She is single and pretty close to a perfect 10 imho. I'm good looking (attractive women have told me I look like Brad Pitt, or Leo DiCaprio when my hair was longer) but am in the process of dealing with some inner-game issues.
So I found her on Facebook last week. She gave me her # after a couple e-mails, we sent a few texts, then we had an hour-long phone conversation (which I was the one to end).
That brings me to today...I texted her saying I'm going to this place to eat by the ocean with some friends and she should join us. She didn't respond, though I semi-expected that because she works until 8PM. The conversation picks up later that evening...
Me: Hey nerdball...u giving me the silent treatment or is your shift at (local strip-club) really THAT busy tonight?
(Note: she used to work as a go-go dancer, not a Stripper...but that doesn't stop me from pretending otherwise hehe)
Her: ha! Ya I was busy...you've never been to (place I invited her to) b4?!?!
Me: Of course I have! Went there tonight and u missed out sucka!
Her: you ate in the rain?
Me: we ate inside and goofed around in the rain. One girl melted, but she was a witch anyway.
Me: Nah...I just forgot what night you have off. Took a shot.
Her: oh. lol!
Me: Don't refresh my memory or anything. Geez!
Her: varies. usually Thureday.
Me: Hmmm...I'm busy tomorrow but not Thurs. Come check out this new lounge with me that night. Would still love the chance to catch up with you in person. You just have to promise to behave yourself.
Her: Wil see. I'm working late Thursday. (after she just told me she usually has Thursdays off! WTF!?!)
Me: I can't do the maybe thing. What time you getting off?
Her: lol. I don't kno
-At this point I called her to bust on her over the phone, but she didn't answer.
Me: I forgot you're not allowed calls after 9PM
Her: Ya...and I don't like talking on the phone anyway.
Me: Why? You have a beautiful voice.
No response for 5 min., then we message each other simultaneously...
Her: Eh idk lol
Me: Note to self: call her a nerdball and she answers you. Give her a compliment and she doesn't know what to say.
Her: Haha. So true!
I ended the convo there...
Looking back at it I would say I didn't create any sexual tension and, despite the fact that we messed around all those years ago, I'm probably getting close to the friend zone. Agree? Disagree? And what should I do to get to the next level with her?