shotgun, its the case of real world. this is the case of facebook.
A girl with a hot pic of her's (some guys dont even look pics) sends messages to her her saying overtly sexual or languages like that.
she is used to it. she may either block him or unfriends him.
what i'm doing is that, i'm standing out from the rest of the crowd and this is interesting to her.
So that she responds to my message on one way or another!!