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Thread: Vicious cycle?

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    Noob is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Vicious cycle?

    This girl and I started dating and things were going pretty well. We have a lot of mutual friends since we are in the same clique and have been friends for awhile, her friends would tell me she was saying "good things" about us, and one said she saw us being in a relationship in a couple weeks. So things were fine and dandy!

    Then

    The night before I left for vacation we made out and she was happy about the date. When I was on vacation I had texted her and got no reply, so I just said whatever, I was a little bummed but I figured she was busy. Later that week I texted her again and got no reply again. I checked up on twitter and she had been tweeting so I didn't know what was up.

    Everyone else I had texted had been replying and so my friend and I agreed that I shouldn't text her again. Well when I came back I would see how she acted when I saw her next (since we have the same friends). Well second day back I see her at the pool, and I say Hi and we didn't hang out for the rest of the day, so I figured it was done and whatever.

    Remember we had been pretty good friends before, now she was barely acknowledging me, she had a party and didn't invite me or my "wingman". So basically the last couple weeks we have been having pretty awkward ass conversations when we are around each other and it's farking annoying.

    I have no farking idea as to why she would suddenly stop talking to me instead of just losing interest and friend zoning me, unless she thinks I just suddenly blew her off and never got my texts. Vicious farking cycle!

    One night when I was at a different party my friend was making fun of her for the guy she had been hooking up with after me and she said "Who do I have other than him?" So I don't know

    I'm over thinking this sh1t, and I don't really have interest in her anymore, I have someone else now, but what the hell do you think happened, and how should I go about getting her back as a friend?

    tl;dr She took my car and money and won't answer calls, does she still like me?

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    Default Re: Vicious cycle?

    hmmmm, my opinion on this one is that she got buyers remorse. I've had similar situations happen to me. Everythings fine and dandy then poof outta no where everything goes down hill fast. The only thing you can do is sit back and look at every detail leading and try to find any mistakes you might have made. Once you find them, correct them. This way next time your in control. Thats what I did and it has make me a better pua. One other thing to take into consider is the fact that you may have come down with the dreaded "oneithis" lol. where you get hooked on one girl. The only way to cure that is to talk to more girls. If she's been hooking up with some one else that quick. Then, i'm gonna say you prob ran some good material in the beginning and then got a lil to laid back. You didn't stay on top of shit and dropped the ball. Hope this helps


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