What's up guys I'm Tim. This is my first thread but I've been reading alot of stuff here and it's great.
So I'm texting this girl Amy I've known for a while. We had a fling for a few months 2 years ago and we hooked up about 10 days ago at a party. The only time I see her is at parties on the weekends when one or both of us are drunk but I want to hang out with her in a sober setting. I've asked her and she's said yes and seemed pretty enthusiastic about it but we've never made plans. I've invited her places but everytime she's busy. So I text her today and this is how it goes
Me 6:13p: Hey you
Amy 6:24p: Hiiii
Me 6:46p: Lets hang out tonight
(I saw her the night before so it wasnt totally out of the blue)
Amy 6:50p: I cant. I have 2 shows on
Amy 7:02p: Im still a lil grossed out by the target story
(I'll explain this in a sec)
Me 7:17p: Thats not information i volunteered, its meant to be private. Why does it bother you? I remember us doing something similar at american eagle
(I'll explain this too)
Amy 7:30p: Cuz its (name of my ex)..
(Amy is the jealous type and she never liked my ex)
Me 7:55p: are you really holding that against me? ha
Amy 7:57p: No im just sayinn
Me 8:20p: Hmm if i didnt know any better, i might say youre judging me for something that happened over two years ago =P
(Amy thinks im judgmental which i disagree with, im teasing her with that here)
She never responded. Target story=i had sex with my gf in a target dressing room a couple years ago, it came up in never have i ever last night. The fact that she was grossed out by it is bs cuz american eagle story=Amy and I hooked up in an american eagle dressing room a couple years ago. Also Amy is very sexually open and active so its a little ironic.
How can I fix this and fast? I go back to school in 10 days and I'd like to hang out at least once before then. And I don't think I'll see her again at a party this summer. Not looking for a relationship btw just a hook up.