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    briggsy420 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Arrow need help with this HB9

    So I've seen this girl at the gym a few times and i go up and talk to her and i get her number. She's flirty and talkative and wants to hang so we hang out and there was a big connection, we Hung out for a really long Time just talking and going places. I go to her house later the next day and we just chill then.

    Now here's the problem I leave her house and go home and the next morning I text her and she starts being short, I have been texting her quite a bit at this point and there wasn't any problem. I have tried not texting back so quickly and just trying all the advice I've seen on this site, so far it hasn't been working and she still has been short. I'm just wodering if someone's been in this situation and what they did to get her interested again. I do not have such good game through texting.

    Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    She wanted you to do the deed with her and you missed all the signs she was throwing at you. Now she's pissed because she thinks you rejected her. Sometimes those signs are so subtle you miss them if you blink. If your preoccupied the slightest bit you'll miss them.

    Most of the time you have to do the Clark Griswold with her. If you don't know what that is go watch the movie.

    Eye contact is key or a killer. With constant eye contact you'll get physical contact. Always look in their eye and at their lips. One other thing I do and it works 100% of the time is have that "ya, we just had sex" grin on your face all the time. It drives them crazy. They usually approach me when I make eye contact with them with that grin on my face. That is as simple as it gets. When they approach you your the one who plays hard to get not them and you have just flipped the script on them.

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    briggsy420 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    Well that wasn't really the problem cause when I was with her at her house we we're with her family the whole time so that couldn't have happened. If we we're alone at some point I would have at least kissed her for the first time.

    Thanks for the reply though

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    wow, you know this chick better than all of us, do what you think is best. better planned than i would have.

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    There are opportunities everywhere for you to go from small talk to the prone. You have to capitalize on those small avenues of approach; and most times it is so unnoticeable but it is there, and transform them into the game changer you need. Where you in a car together, on the train, walking? There is always an opportunity but you have to create it.

    Women are tired of mediocre men, they want a man who is compelling and one who will inject something different into the mix. Once you learn how to do that it will become natural to you.

    Take a dog or puppy for example. When you want to play with them what do you do?

    Women want you to play with them. Once you are able to just play with them, like you did in 1st grade, everything else falls in place.

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    yeah i had some opportunities to make a move on the first date.

    Im going to explain how the date was and such so you guys have better understanding and could possibly help me further as to why shes so short and how to save it.

    So the date went like this; i picked her up at 9pm and we drove to the movies. we end up being an hour early, she asks me if i want to go get ice cream while we wait for the movie to start. i say yeah and we go. we eat the ice cream and chill at the ice cream place while waiting for the movie to draw near. eventually we leave and get to the moves (we saw The Change Up). after the movie we go to the venice beach and lay out on the huge roof of the entrance to the place and just talk. a cop comes cause he sees my car and we sneak off the roof and wait for the cop to leave and when he does we ran to my car got in and took off. we decide to go to sharkies to walk the pier. we walk it then on the way back toward our car i suggest that we sneak into the restaurant. we get in and we just sit down and talk at one of the tables. after awhile we realize its 4am. she asks me if we can go to my house cause i mentioned i like to draw and do art, she wanted to see them. so we leave and get to my house at 4:30am and she says she has to leave to go home at like 5am. so we get there she looks at my art thats good and she notices some more in my closet that im not to proud of and she wrestles me to get it lol. eventually i give up and let her see it (looking back i think this is a good time for a first kiss). after awhile she asks the time and it was 5:30am so i walk her out and she hugs me goodbye, doestn hesitate or anything for me to possibly give her a kiss at all so i just think nothing of it because i didnt want to rush things. o and during the whole time we were with each other we were talking and laughing without a dule moment or awkward moment the entire night.

    the next day i ask her to hang and she invites me over to just chill. we lay on her bed and she shows me pictures she has on her laptop. we watch funny vids on youtube and such then her sister and her sisters ex come in and start talking to her. eventually they ask us if we want to play rats. everyone says sure and we play. we play uno after that and then they just linger around and talk about some old times they had together. the whole time i dont really say much cause i cant relate to there storys at all.

    i leave at 4am and then she starts being short with me and i dont understand why. you are probably right maestro

    also she invited me to hang out 2 days later after this time at her house. on the day we were supposed to hang she tells me she is going to hang with a coworker and i right away assume its a guy.

    now its 3 days after that and i asked her if she wants to hang out sometime and she says "lol maybe". i suggest a time (i sent this text at 8:30pm) and she doesnt respond after that. now its the morning and i dont know what to do, if i should send an opener or just wait awhile then re-initiate or what? need help on this too
    Last edited by briggsy420; 08-23-2011 at 01:09 PM. Reason: added additional info

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    There is still a way you can turn this around, but you have to be bold about it though. No pusy footing around, get straight to the point... Obviously there was/is some kind of attraction there between you two so take advantage of it while you can.

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    im sorry but what exactly do you mean take advantage of it? i dont know what to do at this point

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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    Is she someone you want around or is she someone you can chalk up as a learning experience? This is a key question you need to answer for your own good. If she is the later then just move on. There are more where she came from. Hot women are a dime a dozen and if you treat them like that and you have that attitude like that about you they come to you instead of you going to them.

    If she is someone you want to spend time with then go for it, call her up and tell her your coming over(don't wait for her to give you permission, you don't want or need her permission) just show up, say you have to give her something but don't tell her what it is...Don't let the awkwardness get in your way...get her alone like outside or something and then just lay the biggest kiss on her....at this point talking to her is going nowhere for you and action is all you have left.

    If she pulls away then say I thought so and leave it. If she kisses you back or is into it then say the same thing. Now your on a new level playing field where you can escalate to your hearts content.

    It's a 50/50 chance and you'll never know unless you do it.

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    briggsy420 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with this HB9

    thanks man thats actually the answer i was lookiing for. that sounds real good and ill have to do that sometime soon. ill let you know how it goes.

    o and she is someone i want around by the way


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