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    The other night me and my friend were taking a cab back to college with these two girls we just met at a part. They were cool and it seemed like the one girl was into me. Right before they got dropped off I told her that she seemed pretty cool and should throw my number in my phone and maybe well hang out sometime. She seemed happy to and put her name and number in my phone. Now this next part is where I think I fucked up. When I got back to my room like 30 minutes to an hour later i texted her saying it was greg from the cab and hoping she had fun that night. I did not get any kind of response so I was wondering where I messed up and what I should do for future situations like this.

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    Default Re: Phone Advice

    u didn't really mess up but u texted something too common pu is about beeing different and standing out, don't stress about her not responding she probably just went to sleep next time just text it was nice to meet u or preferebly nothing

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    Default Re: Phone Advice

    I hear both kind of responses to a text at the end of the night. I have heard people say it's okay and good to, and I have heard people say to never do that.

    But, however, the people that agree to sending the text at the end of the night is okay say this... Never say, "Hi this is ____". In general, you are doing what every other guy would do. It screams, "Oh hey, I am so and so, remember me????"
    Make her remember you through the context in the text. (FYI. I am a believer in sending a text that night, again, an hour after you meet or so though, is okay to some extents, depending on the situation of course and the way the convo was going) For instance, perfect example: Met a girl in NYC. She was from uptown Manhattan. Her and i were at a decent bar that played ALOT of 80/90's rock and Billy Joel - Uptown Girl came on prior to me knowing she was an uptown girl. So, I asked her if she was. She said yes, bla bla bla. So I gave her the nickname uptown girl. So, later on, we exchange numbers. I was going to actually hit her up on the way home with a text saying, "Hey uptown girl, had fun tonight." What that does is create this level of comfort by having an "inside" joke or knowledge with her. So, when I would of texted her that, she would of remembered and felt that sense of comfort that friends share with inside jokes. Now, why I didn't text her was... well because she texted me first lol. However, not to stray from the topic. I didn't text her back right away of course. Ended up waiting a little the next day.
    However, a few days later, I was heading into the city again and wanted to get an idea if she was around. So I texted her... "Hey uptown girl, heading into the city to _____. Bring some friends. I'll have some backstreet guys with me.- She loveeddddd that text.

    Now, am I an advocate of texting the same night of meeting a girl, yes and no. My friend met a girl that same night I met uptown girl and he texted her that night, she never responded. I observed his game that night and the interaction she had with him. If it were me, I wouldn't of texted her that night. It all truly depends on the situation, rapport built, and comfort level developed. The more you go about the world of PUA, the better feel you have for the situations at hand.

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    Default Re: Phone Advice

    Me and some friends are going to a party tomorrow night. Do you think I should invited her tomorrow to come along or do you think I shouldnt bother? And thanks for the responses they are very helpful.

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    Default Re: Phone Advice

    of course u should: " me and my friends r going to x place at x time"


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