So you have been messaging a girl back and forth for a while. You tell her a story about a horrible date you went on with a girl you met from the Site. This is how I do it
Me: I don't know if I should ask you out. The last girl I took out from this site only wanted to talk about how much money I make. She even asked if I would help pay her cell phone bill. I was like WTF. So I'm apprehensive about going out again with someone from here.
Her: OMG I can't believe that she said that. I promise that if you take me out I will not act like that.
Me: ok you better pinky swear. I will trust you this time. Let's try and make some plans. What's your number?
Her: oohh tayyy 801-555-5555.
I disqualified, DHVed, and gave preselection in one message. Then played a trust game in my next message after she seeked my approval and trust. Lol its so easy.