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    penguin is offline PUA in Training
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    Default how to re-iterate previous date plans

    so I have been flirting around with this girl at work, who comes to my pool everyday. So we been clubbing together, and grabbed coffee before things are cool. She told me to stop my work and jump into the pool (where a lot of flirting happened)...

    everyone at work thinks she's compatible with me, and lots of IOIs are demonstrated on her part (eg. looking at me whereever I go, touching me, smiling, joking to dislike my presence)

    One problem, there's this BIG festival coming this weekend and I asked her 2 weeks ago to pick a day for us to check it out. She never responded the text, so I asked her in person saying "way to ignore my text! next time, I will ignore you all together" and she's like I need to make sure I pick a good date"...

    the festival starts tomorrow until Wednesday, what can I say in a text to not sound so needy and that I want to still go with her, just need to her let pick a date?

    I'm thinking of either
    A) pick a date and text her the plan
    eg: "So Tuesday is really sunny, (festival) in the evening?"
    or

    B) let her pick a date and go with it
    eg: "Hope your weekend was great, don't forget to pick your date for (festival), my agenda is filling up fast!"

    or any better dieas would be nice.. thanks.

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    penguin is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: how to re-iterate previous date plans

    So it appears that tonight she went with a group of friends already and she texted me "oh I already checked it out tonight. How about coffee instead?"

    What should I respond with to show less disappointment and make a point she owes me something.... Something like.. "let's do beers instead at pub wonderland, first 2 rounds on u" ... Yay or nay?

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    Skeptikill is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: how to re-iterate previous date plans

    she completely blew you off without telling you! since you guys hang out all the time every day thats pretty bad since she was asked about it twice.

    Why not try and get her to go a second time with you anyways. Tell her it will be way more fun with you and you can even have coffees there.
    Leaving it go without anything being said/done shows she can do what she wants without considering you.

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    Default Re: how to re-iterate previous date plans

    freezeout that stuff .. make her know it's not acceptable.


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