My current problem is, i don't know how to react to a gf's flirtatious behaviour. She's 10+ years my junior and last weekend when we hung out in a sports bar watching Euro Cup qualifyers i introduced a frequenter guy to her. Something got into him right away, he started putting moves on my gf, all aglow, meaning to get physical. i would have easily thrown up in disgust right there and then but for the fact i'd come to the bar with that girl and was meant to follow through and leave there with her, too. i'm still of the opinion that she did all the provoking for that guy to approach, ie if she'd been wearing indifference no one would have come near. as i was saying i know that guy. most guys in the bar know me as well and when i thought i was beginning to look like a cuckolded fool to others i spoke to that guy to the effect that "you know dude, but that girl's mine" which seems a stupid blooper to make on my part. he went' like, 'no kidding? yours? i never guessed she was yours'. Long story short, he never quit that night and the most atrocious thing happened when he got out his phone with a triumphant gesture and asked her her #. i then started to dictate, but my gf interrupts for fear i was going to say an incorrect number and gives him her genuine one! A while later, i told her in semi-private i thought she'd carried things a bit too far to which she went that usual bs like i must be proud that my girl attracts male attention and she's not to blame for other men's lustful behavior blah blah. As a result, i faked a yawn and moved to another chair for a better view of the tv screen. Then she got loaded and took herself off in a cab. She texted and then called me in the morning. I wasn't much inclined to talk or text back, so she took a bus and came right over to where i work. I was disinclined to talk but the went at me with "you're a cheapskate", "you're a jealous Othello". I said no, i simply don't fukken care. i meant it, no kidding.
I really don't. But next time friends, there may appear a girl i do care about. Still i don't know what to do when someone else hits on a girl/woman you're with.