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    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    Hey fellas,

    I'm having a real dilemma here. I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year 2 months and it was the game that actually got me her in the first place. However, now it's come to the point where I love her to bits, but I also want to be single and try out a lot larger amount of girls. She's 18 and i'm 20, and we have talked about this, about how we are both young and deserve to enjoy our youth.

    So what do you guys think? The PUAs!?

    Finchy x

    p.s We really do love each other

    >< Because it's worth it ><

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    Default Re: My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    only you can decide how much she really means to you. what if it back fires on you and she meets a man and doesn't want you anymore. and you go through all those girls just to realize what you had was good but you let her go because of what? just playing devil's advocate >

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    Default Re: My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    I am not going to tell you what is right or what is wrong to do. That isn't my place because the situation you are involved in, only you know best. But here is MY personal experience.

    I will give a little background on myself. I love women to death. I respect them. I always wanted the fairy tale love life. But guess what, every time I thought I had it, I was naive, blind, or just wrong.

    I am now 25 years old. At age 20, I thought I found the love of my life. Only to realize after a 2 year relationship (started dating at age 18) we broke up. Then, on to the next one a few months later. Now I was 20, dated until I was 23, bam, same shit. Just didn't work out. 23, I met another girl, 1.5 years later at 24 years I am yet again alone. I know, serial dater right? lol.

    Anyways, my point is this. You are young. I was young. What you think you know now will change 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 years down the road. If you have something good, then that is great. BUt now you are getting these mixed emotions. They are coming from somewhere right?

    I wish I could believe in true love. I wish I could have it, truly I do. But I still haven't found it. And to be honest, I thought I did numerous times. Maybe I am a drifter meant to be alone, who knows? But only you can decide what is right for you. You feel what you feel for a reason, so realize why you feel it, and either change it, or act on it.

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    Default Re: My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    hey do what you feel is right. noone here will judge you for being a AFC or anything.

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    Default Re: My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    You just got good advice ,but remember ,what ever you decide ,you can have many gals using the seduction material .So watever you decide wont backfire as much ,unlike if you did not have pua material ,remember theory teaches skills.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    Cheers guys!

    It really is handy to hear it from the guys who actively go out and meet new girls, so cheers for the advice. I'll keep it on board for whatever happens.

    Also I know I would have great amounts of fun with other girls, but as you stated, I may not know how much I love my girl until I lose her.

    Thanks fellas!
    Finchy x

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    Default Re: My girlfriend... or the PUA World?

    I`ve been in the same situation. Actually, it was with a girl who at first accepted being one of many girls I was fucking. But after time passed she wanted to be my girlfriend. I tried to be exclusive but just couldn`t do it. I loved her too but being exclusive is a huge sacrifice for me. Ending it was VERY shitty but I knew that I had to either choose her, or the lifestyle I wanted.

    That`s me. For you, I guess it depends how badly you want the PUA lifestyle.


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