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    Default Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    Ok guys , so I go to a local pub about 1 hr before closing time with a few buddies last saturday. We walk in...head to the bar and I see this completely gorgeous girl looking my way. So I give her a look and smile right into her eyes and she walks right up to me and we start chatting a bit. We both grab a shot and go head to the dance floor which is not busy at all but hey, still a pretty great way to start the night. I notice she's at the bar with her friend her friends boyfriend, so I know I can't have then cock-blocking me so before I can even get her alone away from them she asks me if I wanna go outside for a smoke. Sure! It's almost working out too good for me. This girl is hands down THE hottest girl in the bar and u haven't had to do anything to work for this. So we get outside and I have her all to myself and we start chatting and are clicking really good. I'm definitely into this girl and sure enough get her #. I ask her if she wants to come back to my buddies house for a few drinks but she says she has to go with her friend which I totally play off cool, don't beg or anything like that for her to come. I text her back about 30 min later "hey it's Josh , just wanted to let u know I had a great time with you tonight and I want to take you out on a date sometime" she texts back "ya I want to see u again too, u let me know when is good for u"...so everything looks too good to be true for me. I decide not to text her the following day, but then on Monday I simply text her "hey I had a great time on sat and hope to see u soon!"...she doesn't send anything back at all. Now today still nothing. Im wondering if she just took the text from me as a comment and decided not to text back or does she have mixed feelings. I'm not gonna write anything back today because I don't want to look desperate, but I think I should ask her out tomorrow. Any suggestions or comments would really help guys. Should I wait longer? What should I text her? And why wouldn't she write back? We clearly had a great time and she even said she would go out with me when I told her I wanted to take her out sometime. I'm just really confused! Someone please help! Thanks pua's!

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    There's quite a simple answer. She has buyer's remorse. She feels she has made a mistake and now she regrets it. You should have set a date on the second message, not repeating what you said in the first text.

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    I did 2nd message her, I asked her "how about thurs or fri" but she said she works till midnight both nights. So then i replied "well i definatly want to take you out sometime, i like u" and she replied "ok sounds great i would like to see you too again as well, you phone me when you're ready"...So then i waited a day and texted her " i had so much fun with you on sat and hope to see you again sometime soon". Then no repsone. Really not sure what or when i should text back. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    I really don't think it was buyers remorse, because of how much fun we had and the signals she was giving me the whole night. The ONLY way i could see that is if her friend really put me down afterwards or something like that. I dunno, I definitley think i should be texting her back , atleast to ask her out sometime. I just don't know how i should do it

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    Say that you're going to ( insert bar/club you usually go to ) with some friends and that she's welcomed to tag along with her friends. You're already going, which in her mind it will go something like this : "hey, this guy is perfectly fine if I don't come too...huh..guess i'll go".

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    Ya i like that idea...but i want to get her alone though like on a date. Which she has told me she was in for. Maybe I would use that if I don't hear back after a date invitation? I don't think she would show up to a bar if I was out with a group of ppl. Any other suggestions on a great opening text for asking her out? I like the advice so far you have gave me.

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    Read this thread : http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...technique.html
    Works in your situation quite well too.

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    That's pretty good advice my man, I really think I might use that line. In your opinion , should I ask her out first THEN use that line if she doesn't respond? or use that line before asking her out?

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    What about asking her out AND deliver the line at the same time?

    "Hey, ( insert her name here ), I'm free Saturday night, let's go to ( bla bla bla ). If not, then I should let you know that I've found you to be an interesting, cool and fun to be around. I really want to get to know each other a little better but since you're too busy, then let's just be friends."

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    Default Re: Absolutely Puzzled with this scenario..please help!

    Ya I like that , but you honestly don't think it's pretty harsh giving her an ultimatum of either being just friends by only giving her ONE chance to go out with me even if she can't make the date because she might have made other plans or has to work? I want to play this safe because this is hands down the hottest girl I have ever had a chance to hook up with. I think I have to ask her out and if she doesn't reply then use that "line" you gave me. I really think that should work. I know she works till midnight on thurs and fri and most likely saturday i remember her mentioning to me she works every 2nd weekend. So I might have to push for a date into next week sometime if she's busy all weekend. I don't want her to lose interest in me though, which is why I need to find a great opening line to ask her out to. Got any of your best material i can use? you seem to know your shit! lol


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