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Thread: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

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    Default Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    Hi,

    These nice girls love dating these bad boys. These jerks treated them like crap, get them into bed and has sex with them when ever they want, gets them knocked up and some of these girls love them still and won't let go and etc. why? please explain

    Wing

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    They just like confident guys. Have you read Mystery Method, or The Game? i would recommend it. You will learn all about this subject.

    Being the AMOG helps a lot. Those are the traits women look for. Just so happens a lot of AMOG's are A holes.

    Lead the Men to get the women. Know what I mean?

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    You just answered yourself ,'have sex ,and bang em when they like ,treat them like dirt' thats having control ,but for the latter you dont have to treat women like dirt you just have to take control.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    The way I see it girls like dating the bad guy because they are te ones that always get spoken about in the circle of friends no ones talks about the nice guys it's alway ______ is such an asshole

    Also girls usually think that they can be the one to change the bad guys

    I always opt for a tough exterior and a pretty "dick" reputation but am a nice guy when girls get to know me

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    In addition to the above comments, I think a lot of girls get really emotionally invested in their guy and don't want to give up. Similar to nice guys that get used and walked all over but always hope that their girl will finally "see the light" one day.

    The best combination in my opinion is a mix of bad boy + nice guy. Be the bad boy 75% of the time and then drop in rare, random nice guy moves. She'll appreciate and always remember the nice moves and wont take it for granted.

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    Here is what the PUA community has agreed upon with this topic. Girls date and have sex with bad guys because bad guys say what they want and do what they want, they dont think about consequences because they envision the earth revolves around them. This is believed to be linked to evolution where females only want to mate with the alpha male. You need to be the person making the decisions, calling the shots, and saying what you what you want to say regardless of consequence, but not become an A-hole in doing so. Also you need to look comfortable while doing so. Good luck man hope this helped you.

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    You just summed it up right there. Because they like the things that you mentioned. If you can't beat them, join them

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    But i dont think confidence comes with being a bad guy...and sometimes its because the bad boys are more popular and women are attracted to power, even the negative kind.

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    This, in my opinion, is truly the basis of picking up women. When I very first started chasing girls as a teenager I always went for these super hot chicks that made me nervous as hell. I had no skills and it did nothing but make me depressed and lose self-esteem.

    But no matter how bad you may be, there is always some girl that you look down to and feel better than. Maybe she's fat or ugly or has acne or something. There's always some girl that you know would give her left tit to be your girlfriend. When I finally decided to try dating a girl who was below me I realized, wholly sh1t, I become a bad boy just like the guys dating the hot chicks! So anyways, my belief is we all are the bad boy, it just depends if were confident enough to express it or not.

    Oh and also, so the girl I've ever been the meanest to, I used her for sex and money and food and she caught me cheating on her (which I don't feel good about btw, I think these are wrong) texts me once or twice a week saying she misses me and were meant to be together. I never respond, but she continues. Meanwhile a girl I moved for and sacrificed a ton for wants absolutely nothing to do with me. Go figure!
    Last edited by Mobius; 01-19-2012 at 01:57 PM.

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    Default Re: Why do nice girls love dating the bad boys instead of the nice guys?

    This is a little bit of a repeat of what has been said but with a little more insight.

    To say girls "love bad boys" and "nice guys finish last" is such a simplified generalization. A girl never says..."wow that guy treats women like sh1t and is a d1ck to all his friends ...I want that" or "that guy is soooo nice and treats every one well, i nee to stay away"

    No. This is whats really going on. Women like confidence. Nice guys tend to overcompensate, be doormats, needy, and do nice things despite those nice gestures being undeserved. The "bad boys" exude confidence, are playful with women, are outgoing, and have fun. But you also see "bad boys' who generally have a mean streak and a negative disposition...nobody wants to be around those guys and you dont exaxtly see women clamoring to him...the only guys and girls you see around that guy are masochistic people with very low self esteem with a bunch of baggage and mental issues....do you really want to be that guy to have girls like that?

    Like annoher poster said, ideally you want to cultivate the best of both worlds ...be the confident, playful, self assured, comfortable in his own skin, guy while at the same time treating those near to him (key word here is near to him...those who earned the respect) with decency, kind gestures, etc. But I must emphasize that this nice bad boy only shares his values to those who deserve it...not just any chick or person who wants it.
    Last edited by uluvtheLD; 01-29-2012 at 12:45 PM.


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