Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    Skyreset is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 89, Level: 1
    Level completed: 78%, Points required for next Level: 11
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    Tempe, Az
    Posts
    10
    Points
    89
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Not sure where I went wrong...

    So i met this girl off of Pof a few weeks ago and we hit it off instantly. We exchanged a few messages and she finally asked for my number to text me (ioi). I would normally ask for hers but given the circumstances I gave her my number and she text me the following day. The conversation went as follows:

    HB: Hey, it's (name) off that stupid site pof
    Me: Haha. How's it going darlin?
    HB: Hahaha hi! Good here, how are you?
    Me: I'm good thanks. What are you up to?
    HB: well I'm just enjoying this weather, it's awesome! And hanging out with my gf having a beer. You?
    Me: The same, well not my gf. But having a guinness with a friend watching Evil Dead.
    HB: She's my best friend not...Yeah! Haha but I hope you understood! I'm so damn stupid sometimes! Awesome never seen that movie
    Me: Haha I know what you mean. And I doubt you're stupid. You havent? We'll have to watch it sometime. What are you two up to?
    HB: Haha ok good, and no I havent! Id like that! we are playing halo reach right now im owning! haha
    Me: Haha ok good. I was never into Halo, I was always a gears of war/cod kind of guy lol.
    HB: Hahaha Omg! I play those too! You have a live?
    Me:Not at the momment but my sn is...(screen name)
    HB: Oh ok nice!

    (next day)
    Me: Good morning. How was your night?
    HB: Good morning, it was alright, how was yours?
    Me: Very relaxing. Did you kick your friends butt at reach?
    HB: Haha yes I did! It was pretty cool!
    Me: Haha what do you have going on today?
    HB: Well im just hanging out with my brother, we are having coffee right now, then i might go skating.
    Me: right on. As in skateboarding?
    HB: Yeah sweety skateboarding.
    Me Some people still roller blade so Im just making sure.
    HB: hahaha yeah like fruit booters haha. Yeah I skate I've been skateboarding since I was 12 years old and never stoped
    Me: Exactly! I like to ride old style boards with urethane wheels. Makes the ride a lot smoother.
    HB: Hehe awe soo cool! I do gel ones too!
    Me: You're quite the woman
    HB: Haha well thank you dearest! So how old are you?
    Me: 21. You?
    HB: I'm 22
    Me: Perfect
    HB: So what kind of music do you like?

    I list what I like then she lists what she likes. This was around 3pm on Sunday 9/11. She then stopped texting me after that. I didnt hear back from her so I thought maybe she was doing the whole "he hasn't text me so I wont text him" bs. So on Tuesday 9/13 I messaged her in the morning saying "good morning, hope you have a good day" got nothing back.

    I realize I shouldn't have text as much as I did but I actually liked her so it was tricky (new to this). And I used a lot of emojicons cause I guess that was my attempt at mirroring her text.

    What do you guys think?

  2. #2
    Hopeful33's Avatar
    Hopeful33 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,840, Level: 34
    Level completed: 60%, Points required for next Level: 60
    Overall activity: 20.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Sep 2011
    Location
    Oklahoma
    Posts
    440
    Points
    2,840
    Level
    34
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    141

    Default Re: Not sure where I went wrong...

    Unless you dating don't say morning. She might not be awake. She could think it's a little creepy. Safe text is more like 12 say something like hey I was wondering where my pretty friend went I think she got stolen lol

  3. #3
    Skyreset is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 89, Level: 1
    Level completed: 78%, Points required for next Level: 11
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    Tempe, Az
    Posts
    10
    Points
    89
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: Not sure where I went wrong...

    Good point hopeful. I'll be sure to hold off the "good mornings" next time.
    -SR

  4. #4
    keepurcool is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 349, Level: 6
    Level completed: 98%, Points required for next Level: 1
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    Posts
    128
    Points
    349
    Level
    6
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    24

    Default Re: Not sure where I went wrong...

    too much talking dude, ask to meet up already. and on top of that its too much "what are you up to today" either have some fun and fuck around with her tell her youre fighting kangeroos or get a little more serious on the topics.

  5. #5
    Skyreset is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 89, Level: 1
    Level completed: 78%, Points required for next Level: 11
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    Tempe, Az
    Posts
    10
    Points
    89
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: Not sure where I went wrong...

    I agree dchen. At the time it wasnt apparent to me but after typing the conversation up on my post i realized there was way too much bs going on. I'll definitely pay closer attention to that from here on out.
    -SR


Similar Threads

  1. What went wrong with this set of 8 girls in the bar?
    By icemonkey in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-30-2011, 04:04 PM
  2. Dealing with a tease, what did I do wrong?
    By Slick in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 10-03-2011, 02:40 AM
  3. where did i go wrong!?
    By hereforfun in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-14-2010, 03:58 PM
  4. What's wrong with a cat?
    By PUA808 in forum Help Getting A Girlfriend
    Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 10-08-2010, 01:11 AM
  5. what did i do wrong
    By dark knight in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 04-12-2010, 05:20 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com