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    Default My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    So i number closed last night on a - off duty - Stripper after i got her to buy my a slice of pizza while waiting in line. We sat, ate, and I got her to take my number. Later she text me "Heyy" so i would have her number. What should I open her with?

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    So, she wasn't working as an exotic dancer at the time you got her number? She was just another woman who happens to be an exotic dancer? Treat her as such.

    How did her being an exotic dancer come up?

    Without much information, I would suggest treating her like you would any other woman. Don't let her being an exotic dancer go to your head (if she really is one).

    If she told you, out of the blue, it was a test. How did you react? She likely said it to gauge your response. How you reacted will determine if she sees you as just another customer, even if only a potential one, or as something more important.

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    I was standing in line for pizza at 1am then this she came up and wanted to cut the line. At the time I was going to say no but i figured Id see where this would go. So i started talking with her, joking around she tried grabbing my arm so I called her out for being too touchy, when she asked for my name I told her my mom told me not to talk to strangers. She was laughing eventually I asked what she did and she said she had 2 jobs when she mentioned the club name i said that's sounds familiar and then it clicked for me. I just said that's cool. My friend however wasn't as cool about it . Anyways i she bought me pizza and sat down with us. Finally she was telling me to come to the club and gave me her schedule so i told her to call me and i might go. Her friend came and it ended there.

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    Quote Originally Posted by bigmig View Post
    I was standing in line for pizza at 1am then this she came up and wanted to cut the line. At the time I was going to say no but i figured Id see where this would go. So i started talking with her, joking around she tried grabbing my arm so I called her out for being too touchy, when she asked for my name I told her my mom told me not to talk to strangers. She was laughing eventually I asked what she did and she said she had 2 jobs when she mentioned the club name i said that's sounds familiar and then it clicked for me. I just said that's cool. My friend however wasn't as cool about it . Anyways i she bought me pizza and sat down with us. Finally she was telling me to come to the club and gave me her schedule so i told her to call me and i might go. Her friend came and it ended there.
    She was recruiting a new customer. Don't see her at the club. Follow the posted link if you don't understand why. She gave you her number, it's likely she has two phones.

    It's not impossible to get this to work the way you want, but you have to completely remove her from the exotic dancer mentality; that's very hard to do with a professional.

    I don't know you or what your history with women is, but unless you've been in the ring a few times, pump up your ego with what went well and cut it off. If you think you can move this the way you want, go ahead, if you have to ask how, you'll regret not stopping now.
    (I'll have more respect for you if you do keep going, whether you fail or succeed, but I'd hate to see you try to take two steps forward and end up taking three steps back, or falling down altogether.)
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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    I'm not planning on going to the club until we go out at least a couple times on regular dates. I did text her and we had i nice convo she even seemed interested in hanging out tonight but i told i was busy. I'll keep u posted. Thanks for the advice.

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    Quote Originally Posted by nik View Post
    Don't see her at the club.
    This still applies if you're dating, possibly moreso.
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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    say 'thanks for pizza. i expect ruth's chris next time'

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    Ruth's Chris? I take it you're in SF?

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    Hey guys so I've continued communication with her all via text game. It has gone well and i went to asking her out but she flaked. Below is today's abbreviated transcript. Advice and thoughts would be helpful.

    Me: So how is my favorite lil' brat doing today?

    Her: Ahaha why am i the brat? And i'm alright just at work you?

    Me: Cuz u remind me of those lil' Bratz dolls. LOL. So i decided to give you that as your nickname.

    Her: Ahaha oh man. So where do you work

    Me: At taco bell... I'm employee of the month there. I get a free chalupa every month maybe next month i'll split it with you.

    Her: AHAHAHA

    Me: So what does a girl, i mean brat, do after work? ;-)

    Her: Ummm it depends on how tired i am, If im awake id like to go out.

    Me: Well if you;d like to grab a bite to eat let me know. All i can promise is good food and even better conversation. Haha

    Her: Ahaha alrighty yeah. If it takes me awhile to get to you hit me up cause i never know when's a good time for all that.


    In the end i called her a few hours later and she didn't answer. Is she into me?

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    Default Re: My 1st stripper #. What should I text her?

    Hey Nik, Just wanted to update you that I continued persuit and she just agreed to go out later this week. - obviously she could flake - so i wont count my chickens until they hatch but progress has been made.


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