first of all, awesome stuff you are posting! Very, very inspiring, keep it up!
So long story short: I'm totally new to this.. the terms, the strategies etc. I'm reading up on DavidD material at the moment, but that's the only stuff so far. I've been in semi-long relationships most of my life, so I figured now is the time to try to "maximize my potential". I'm european btw, if I make a bunch of typos.
So I will get to the point:
Met a girl on a concert in a club friday. I tease her a bit, but due to the loud music we didn't talk that much before she starts to grab me here and there while dancing behind me, and we were dancing together most of the show. A bit more talking, a bit of kissing, and the whole dancing part got quite sexy. I thought I would take her home, but right when the concert ends a bunch of (bitchy) gfs demand her to go with them. She gives me her number and she's off.
So I wait until 7-8pm on sunday to text her:
Me: Hey [name], awesome show. Btw, I'm ok with talking a bit the next time we meet ..but as a start I'm [name]
Her (50 min later): Hi [name] (just so you know, I DO remember your name ;-)). Yeah cool show. I'd gladly meet you some day and talk a bit. Regards, [name]
Me (1 hour later): Sounds good. If you buy me a beer we might even have a dance-off! Sweet dreams
Her (15 min later): Hehehe. Not bad. "Maybe just one beer". We'll see. Have a good night.
I had a bit to drink that night, so honestly I thought I never gave her my name. She seemed rather sober. And on top of that I was out with an old ex-gf who was dancing next to us, and the situation between us has been a bit unclear to me.. but I thought f**k it. It still seemed a bit weird though.
Anyway, it's not that I care all that much about this particular scenario. But I thought I might as well get critizism/advices from you guys on this thing and LEARN (which I'm very eager to do) while I'm at it. So if you have advices on when to contact her again, and what to do, feel free to shout. Would be cool to try to hook up with her next weekend if possible.
Oh, and what's up with the "maybe just one beer" (with the ""):
I'd love it to be her hinting we might do something else, but it might as well be her playing hard to get, saying "it might just be that one beer, so don't get your hopes up".
Thanks guys. Good luck, see you around!