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    Default are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Within the last 3 weeks these are some signs or phrases she's said... are these IOIs?

    - "we're best buddiessss... jokinggg" --> indicating she doesnt want to be just friends?
    - "we keep talking about sex and touching each other, why hasn't it happened yet?"
    - texting me thanks for being there for her when some guy whose got no game is boring her and depressing her
    - she asks me if I'd be upset if she flirted and went for other people we knew... which i responded "do whatever you wish, I'm in no position to stop you"
    - when I touch her in the leg, she kind of puts her hand on top of mine for 20 seconds, then say.. "GO AWAY"!
    - she tells me how the guys that chase her aren't up to her standards...
    - she tweeted that she "loves spending time with me"
    - she doesn't flinch when I'm around her.
    - she always asks me to grab beers with her or food with her (breakfast and dinner), but i never establish them as "dates"
    - claims I will be her ONLY close friend in the next 2 years of school together.

    are these good IOIs? or just friendly no meaning stuff?

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Sounds like friend zone to me.

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    sounds more like a girl who is interested but has baggage, just play it cool and slow if you want to build a relationsip, keep teasing if you only want to fark her....

    she is spending a lot of time with you, and there's good interaction happening, so it's not 100% out of hope.

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Definitely sounds like shes putting you in the friend zone if she hasn't already. kiss close? If not, then your deep in the friend zone.

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Try to kiss her. That is the best tell for you. Your guys relationship has already progressed to the point where if she wanted you to kiss her she would let you. That will give you your answer.

    I see mixed signals here also. The fact that she holds your hand and touches you are definite ioi's. Also the thing about her asking if you would be upset about her talking to other dudes is a Sh1t Test.

    I think she likes you to be honest, but I think she is concerned with ruining the friendship you guys have. Like I said, work to kiss close her.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

    Be the flame, not the moth.

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    She should feel a little uncomfortable around you, I think.

    Normally, her Kino-ing you is a good thing!

    But, 20 seconds seems a litte too comfortable for this case.

    If you have the balls, go and kiss her. But do not ever confess to her. You'll just creep her out. Trust me, it happens.

    Try getting a makeover, especially a haircut and a develop a kind of obnoxious, bad boy, but funny, attitude. Start being sarcastic to her, and try to touch her in the curved area of her back, for short periods of time.

    Use Swingcat's method of push and pull to start getting her attracted, or at least, intrigued by you.

    Also, start reprimanding her, don't be too available for her and please don't let her step all over you. You're the freaking alpha gorilla!

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Quote Originally Posted by penguin View Post
    - she doesn't flinch when I'm around her.
    Do girls normally flinch when you're around them?

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Flinching = Girl is uncomfortable with you = 1) Probably not attracted to you or 2) Very shy (lower possibility)

    Basically, if she smiles no matter what happens, it's an ioi

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    Default Re: are these IOIs, a little confused.

    Killian first post was SPOT ON, he layed it all out for you


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