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  1. #1
    setan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default It was going well until ex-boyfriend showed up

    Hi guys. So that I don't bother you, I'll make a resume of what's happened.

    - 1st night: Met a HB girl trough social circle. She was into me. I didn't play game for technical reasons. Didn't get her number.
    - 2nd night: 2 weeks later, she showed up again in a night out of the group. Talked the all night, built confort. She kept giving strong signs she was into me. For technical reasons again, didn't get her phone.
    - 3rd night: Met her by accident (I think) in a concert when I was with a common friend. She arrived late and came next to me the all time.
    - Later the same night, in a bar I suggested the group to go, her ex was there. She stayed back with the guy when I left with other friends, but asked for my contact first in front of the guy (she asked if we could talk in email, FB) I just told her to give me her phone number so I can ask her out. Of course I knew she was also asking this to make the guy jealous.
    - 24h later I sent her an SMS with call back humour, stating confidence and don't needing response (although, yes, I would like one, thank you very much).
    - 12h later she didn't still respond.

    How to proceed?
    - Long fuse SMS way?
    - Wait for chance and us to meet again trough social circle and her ex don't show up?
    - Use FB instead of SMS?
    - Give time out for her to get over the guy?
    - Other way?

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    AnaM is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: It was going well until ex-boyfriend showed up

    Looks obvious she's not over the ex. Don't push. You can send her a friendly SMS but not too often. It's better to just let things happen. Give her time to get over her ex.

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    Killian is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: It was going well until ex-boyfriend showed up

    Hmm, talk to her on facebook first. Get to know her before asking her out on a "date"

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    flyguy1990 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: It was going well until ex-boyfriend showed up

    Get to know her more before the asking her out, either thorough Facebook or other means, especially if she's still obviously not over the ex.


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