Had a date with an awesome chick I met through internet dating last sunday. Was intially supposed to go out for 1 drink as it was a school night and she's a teacher. But a few laughs and 1 cocktail later we both realised just how much we were on the same page, same paragraph, maybe even same word. Found out we had so much in common it was uncanny.... Then out of nowhere she said, "Did you maybe wanna grab a bite to eat I know this cool place around the corner?"
I of course said yes. Dinner went really well and the waiters at the end of the night said we were a really awesome couple and came back with 2 shots of schnapps (on the house). Ended up walking her home and kissing her out the front of her house. She said she had heaps of fun and I agreed and asked when she was free this week? Friday she had a fund raiser and Saturday a wedding, so Sunday it was. She asked me to text her when I got home, which read like this:
Me: "Home sweet home! Thanks again for tonight I had heaps of fun, hope you arent up too late prepping for class tomorrow"
A: "I had a great time too, thankyou! Night hun : )"
A few days went by and I decided to put in some ground work with a midweek text.
Me "Hey ... How are you? Had a good week with the little tikes?"
Had no reply for 2 days and I was starting to get concerned. Then I logged on to the internet dating site thursday to see if maybe she had sent an email or something when I noticed that in the members who have added you as their favorite had gone from 1 to 0. Since I had mainly been only interacting with her online and there is no indication of who has added you just a number, I assumed it was her.
I progressively began to lose my sh1t. I figured it was late enough in the week to warrant a phone call to line up Sunday and tried to maintain a positive attitude. Phone rang out. I began to lose my cool even more... A friend who was over at the time was like well "game over man, game over", which did not help at all as he knew how head over heels about this girl I was. A couple of hours rolled by and I was pretty confused so I sent 1 sms as a last ditch attempt to salvage my situation.
Me: "Hey ... not sure if you still want me to contact you but I thought we really hit it off the other night, if you are free it would be great to have a chat."
*A couple of hours past*
A: "Hey hun! Sorry been really busy today / tonight. Let's chat soon! : )"
Me: "Oh cool! How embarrassing... So I haven't bombed out?"
To which there has been no reply... Can I salvage this situation? I am clearly not going to contact her but need a reality check and some sound advice. Thanks!