PUA's vs. Players
I was having a conversation with The Red Baron the other night while we were out gaming and he broke this down for me and I thought it was something interesting to share. We are currently both gaming more than one girl. I just recently talked to the main girl I am hanging out with that I want to keep things open right now. She was pretty cool with it.
Back to what this post is about, I just wanted to give some back story to explain where this is coming from.
He and I were discussing that a Pick Up Artist is honest with the girls that he is talking with in letting them know they are not the only one. Most girls are actually surprisingly receptive to this. It is important to tell them BEFORE you sleep with them, and usually they are still cool with getting down in bed. This is the key to having multiple LTR's.
A Player sleeps with multiple girls without telling them what is going on. This is what creates issues and will backfire and create drama for you. Players also lie to the girls and tell them that they are the only one and are deceptive and slimy. Essentially they tell a girl that she is their girlfriend and then turn around and cheat on her. Obviously not a cool thing to do.
If you want to sleep with a girl more then once while seeing other girls, take the high road, be honest and tell her what the deal is.
What are you, and what do you want to be? Player or PUA?
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