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    ph0bolus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default FB to text then nothing. Where did I go wrong?

    So I work in a nail salon..There was this one chick I did who I thought was seriously vibing me, we had some pretty good conversation, so I asked her name, searched her on facebook and messaged her. It took her about 2 weeks to reply and this was our facebook conversation (I know this is long, but please bear with me):

    Her:
    Hey! I don't know why this is my first time seeing this message! How are you?

    Me:
    haha no problem..at least we know your messaging reflexes are pretty slow..I'm doing well..How about you?

    Her:
    I am well thank you. Just back at school. Haha how did find me?

    Me:
    skills, and i'm asian...it was cake, and you gave me your name.

    Her:
    Bahahaha im dying laughing!!

    Me:
    oh, checked your pictures just now, and damn those nails look good. Who did them?

    Her:
    haha some pretty rad kid i met in the mall

    Me:
    Kid sounds pretty pro, I must meet him..

    Her:
    I don't think you'd like hum
    Him*
    You guys are way too different. Wouldn't have anything in common.

    Me:
    You're probably right...That french is exquisite, he's a master of
    his craft..He must be impressive with the ladies.

    Her:
    Haha you were not quite this outgoing when i met you Haha

    Me:
    Yeah, must be these self-help books.

    Her:
    Well they're working my friend

    Me:
    Are you textually active?

    Her:
    I am are you?

    Me:
    Occasionally yeah, If the moods right.

    Her:
    Well the mood i always right

    Me:
    Would you like to partake the aforementioned activity?

    Her:
    I would love to, thank you. Would you like my number so as to contact me?

    Me:
    That would be most excellent.

    Her:
    My number is xxx-xxx-xxxx.

    Me:
    Alright, I'm going text you something naughty.

    Her
    I would expect nothing less

    Alright, so I got her number and this moved to texts which was surprisingly shorter than our conversation on facebook which leads me to believe I did something wrong.

    Me: 6:01pm
    Something naughty

    Her: 9:38pm
    Hi! Thank you for the dirty text! How are you?

    Me: 10:37pm
    Haha oh yeah, there's plenty more where that came from..

    Her:
    I can't wait for whats in store!

    Me: 11:29pm
    I think you've had enough excitement for one day. How'd your audition go btw? (she had an audition at 8pm earlier)

    That's how the conversation ended, and she hasn't texted me back since. So where the hell did I go wrong on this one?

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    bigmig is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: FB to text then nothing. Where did I go wrong?

    You didn't. Although how long has it been since ur last text 1 day? 1 week? Let it sit for awhile she took a while to respond on FB too. When a girl doesn't respond you need to remain positive b/c maybe she got busy or ur text got lost among all the other ones. Wait another couple days and if nothing happens send her a text on Friday.

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    DirtyDiesel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: FB to text then nothing. Where did I go wrong?

    If you said you've had enough excitement for one day, you should have just ended the conversation. Other than that it sounds like you're killing it. She'll text you back; do NOT text her again, just wait.

    I will give you a heads-up though, it sounds like you're in severe danger of friend-zoning yourself. You were pushing it with wanting to meet the guy who did her manicure, and I think the dirty texting- though well played- was interpreted and friendly joking and not flirting. If you want my opinion, give it a day or two on the back burner to let her wonder then text her to meet you somewhere for drinks. This'll give time let the friend-zone connotation die off so you can get back into gaming her.

    Don't explain your absence, just invite her out. Better yet, just skip the question and tell her to meet you somewhere. You don't want to keep this going over text/fb though, or you're going to be one of her girlfriends in no time.
    Last edited by DirtyDiesel; 10-26-2011 at 11:35 AM.

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    ph0bolus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: FB to text then nothing. Where did I go wrong?

    My last text was on Monday, but she was blowing up my news feed on facebook with status updates and posts. I'll take your advice and wait until Friday. She lives about an hour and a half away, and will probably come back during Thanksgiving break so that's the time frame I'm working with.
    Last edited by ph0bolus; 10-26-2011 at 11:59 AM.

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    DirtyDiesel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: FB to text then nothing. Where did I go wrong?

    Well Tropic posted something recently that he invented called the "bank robbery text", I plugged it in another recent post too because it's absolutely genius. This isn't how he had it originally written, this is just the version I use with my personal spin on it. Feel free to play with the wording.

    You: "I'm gonna go rob a bank tonight, want to help?"

    Her: (says yes)
    You: "Actually, I changed my mind. I wouldn't want you slowing me down. Let's just go grab a drink to celebrate my newfound riches instead."

    Her: (says no)
    You: "That's fine, to be honest I was just planning on pinning it on you anyways. I'll still let you come celebrate my newfound riches with me at (such and such a place) tonight though."

    The only downside is you're paying for drinks. Haha

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    ph0bolus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: FB to text then nothing. Where did I go wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by DirtyDiesel View Post
    Well Tropic posted something recently that he invented called the "bank robbery text", I plugged it in another recent post too because it's absolutely genius. This isn't how he had it originally written, this is just the version I use with my personal spin on it. Feel free to play with the wording.

    You: "I'm gonna go rob a bank tonight, want to help?"

    Her: (says yes)
    You: "Actually, I changed my mind. I wouldn't want you slowing me down. Let's just go grab a drink to celebrate my newfound riches instead."

    Her: (says no)
    You: "That's fine, to be honest I was just planning on pinning it on you anyways. I'll still let you come celebrate my newfound riches with me at (such and such a place) tonight though."

    The only downside is you're paying for drinks. Haha
    Haha, thanks. That sounds good, I'll remember to try that once she's in town. For now I guess i'll just try and keep her interested.
    Last edited by ph0bolus; 10-26-2011 at 02:45 PM.


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