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    Default Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    Hey guys,

    I'm new to this forum, hoping to get some good advice.

    This is what happened:

    last thursday (3rd Nov), i was kind of drunk and met this girl who was a singer in a pub. she was with another table just beside talking to her customers. we had some eye contact and immediately i took it as an ioi. my back was facing her and occasionally i bumped into her and just turned back to smile. after some time she then walked away as i continued talking to my friends. 30 minutes later, she returned to tell one of my friend, who was also a singer at the same pub that she felt i was cute. i just replied with a smile (i know i should have spoken to her). Nonetheless, around 1 hour later, i met her outside the toilet and as i was really drunk and sitting on the sofa outside the toilet, she kind of assisted me to stand up, i then asked her for her phone number and she gave it to me and brought me back to the table. then she left me with my friends and went back to the stage to sing. after that, as i was really drunk, my friends and I left halfway at around 4am.

    the following day (4th nov), i waited thru morning to message her around 5pm. "hey, i got your number yesterday, still sleeping ?" however, there was no reply (not sure whether was it because i didn't address her name and tell her who i am) so in order to not sound desperate, i decided to wait till the next day to message her.

    yesterday (5th nov), our chat went like that

    me [2306] hey (her name), don't know if you received my message yesterday, this is (my name). you gave me your number on thursday. working today?
    her [2307] yes, this is (her name).
    me [2313] are you drunk already ?
    her [2328] not drunk. i didn't go to work because i'm sick.
    me [2341] aww. did you take some medication ? and what's your real name btw ?
    her [2350] took some medication already. my name is (blahblah) nickname is (blah)
    me [2354] oh, so where are you now ? (i was hoping that she'll agree on supper)
    her [0033] at home resting
    me [0035] are you hungry ? wanna meet up for supper?

    then there was no response. so i assumed she went to sleep. i thought she might not be interested. so i'll just play accordingly if she replies.

    and today (6nov), all of a sudden, a glimpse of hope appeared. messages as follows:
    her [2048] i am still sick. let you know i can't come to work today.
    me [2105] aww. why so sick ? have you seen a doctor ? anyway, my friend was telling me that you're the most popular singer in the pub, is that true ? :P
    her [2107] hahaha..

    what i don't understand is, whether she is interested or not ? why did she bother to message me telling me she is not going to work today ? then, she replied with a cold "hahaha..".

    anyone out here able to give some good advice on what to do from here on ? I am thinking of asking her out tonight again since she is not working, might be the last day left for me to take advantage of as she usually works from 9pm - 5am.

    i was thinking my next message to be something like "wow, so i must be lucky to have gotten the most popular singer's telephone number, am i lucky enough to treat her supper ?"

    do let me know what you guys think.

    thanks !

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    Default Re: Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    I messaged her last night at 9.45pm: "So you give everyone your phone number ? Or am I special ? :P"

    However, no response up to now. Any ideas ?

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    Default Re: Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    ok this is nothing that cant be fixed, however it is a very bad text message.
    Let me explain what you did wrong

    By telling her a magic word "Everyone" she instantly thought of everyone she gave her number to, and mayby decided that theres a hotter guy she should be texting atm, instead of you.
    "Special" You are not special, since she gives her number to any guy, which does not mean that it gives them the right to text her, which means that it does not mean that she should text you back, if she doesnt want to answer a question that sounds like a guy bragging about how COOL he is. She is supposed to say your special not you.

    Example :"If you were the last guy on earth, even thought youd have the only dick in the world, she would not think that you have a strap on, there fore. it is pretty obvious that you are one of the special people that she gave her number to , therefore she does not want you to state the obvious, because if you do state the obvious she feels nervous. She thinks that you have her figured out and Thats where the TESTS come in, or in your case NOTHING..

    NOTHING - It is a test itself, now she is waiting for a text message from you again, you have a second chance to answer I suggest you think of something special, If you need help describe the girl for me and tell me a lot of stuff u know about her, mayby i can give you a text to send her and get you back on the track.
    I hope i helped ya out buddy


    Sincerely Don

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    Default Re: Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    ok so, i just read everything. what you should do is text her this. "hey i do not mean to bother you, but you have been sick for way too long, it would be against my manners to not help a person in need. I've already left my house and am picking up the last item on my check list, sincerely your name"

    Girls love food, get her some waffles, get her a rose and get her some medicine. Honestly this should work

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    Default Re: Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    You guys rock! Thanks for the responses.

    And I guess you're right, until now she hasn't replied my message regarding me asking her if I'm special.

    I'm not sure whether I should wait it out, or should I text her something ? I feel
    Like texting worldonebass's response, yet I'm not sure if she has recovered and is going to work today or not. Should I ?

    On the other hand, I honestly don't know much about her.

    I sincerely thank all of you once again.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    IMO Markltl, I know this is a forum about texting, but it can only get you so far. A phone call goes a lot further than any text would. Give her a phone call, let her hear you laugh, and dhv the sh!t out of yourself!
    SMILE , and Don't care.

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    Default Re: Need help with a pub singer (slight response)

    To be honest, I'm not sure if she actually remembers me or not. On the other hand, I remembered reading from somewhere that we shouldn't text "hey, do you remember me ?" as its a sign of dlv.

    Now she still hasn't replied and I was thinking of sending her an image that I took with one of the male singer (her friend) and just casually ask what's the name of that guy. In this case I was thinking maybe she could remember me after seeing the picture. What do you guys suggest?


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