So here's the situation:
I've been with this girl for over 9 months now. Everything was perfect for the first 6 months then we hit a rocky patch where we'd break up, make up, break up... you get it. We'd continue trying for the sake of each other & the feelings we had for one another. Now here's problem... she suddenly started becoming very secretive about 3 weeks before she said wanted to break up for good. I couldn't understand why. Then I discovered she starting talking to her ex again & even tried to lie to me saying she was going away with her mom for the weekend but was going to stay with him but she didn't in the end & spent that weekend with me. Then we broke up & that week went out twice & started meeting a guy she use to date who wasn't her ex the day she cut me off.
I tried to make her see we still had a future together for about a week cause I didn't see this coming & my previous 'I don't care if you leave me' attitude went out the window & she realised she had the upper hand. She's been playing off this since 2 weeks ago when we broke up. Eventually I got her to try one more time but she doesn't want the title of being in a relationship & if I say anything outta line she's like fark you, leave me alone etc. & she pretends to me she wants us but then behind my back is uploading pictures of her & her ex on a soial networking site.
She says the biggest reason for her not wanting to be with me anymore is because I lied about my age which she found out MONTHS ago. I just couldn't find a way to tell her. So she's tryna say lies killed us & her affection for me.
But the weird thing is that she still gets mad if I talk to any girls, checks my phone etc.
So today, I woke up & realised what a bitch I was being & froze her out. She called me twice, I didn't answer. Texted me 3 times & I didn't respond & her last text ended 'whatever. fark you'. The problem is I've really grown attached to this girl. It's difficult for me to let her go but she obviously doesn't feel the same anymore. Is it time to cut my losses? Or what do you guys suggest?
Thanks in advance!