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    Default Critique of texts and how to escalate this???

    Last week I got this girl’s number who is nearly 10 years younger than me (she is 18/19). As it wasn’t a Number Close that I really cared about, I thought I just want “a bit of fun” with her and could use this as an opportunity for practice.
    I text her the day after getting her number and the conversation was as follows:

    Me: 13.37 Nice meeting u on the train yesterday. So what trouble have you been causing today
    HB: 19.00 Just work uno I forgot my phone at home been lost without all day. How are you anyway? X
    Me: 20.42 My day was ok thanks but a bit sad, u? Is it ….(her name) by the way lol
    HB: That’s good nd awww why? Mine was good thanks. It’s ….. x
    Me: 20.51: etc etc So (her name), tell me something about urself
    HB: 21.04 Aww bless yah Hmm…Ask me a question I find it hard to talk about myself :$
    Me: 21.21 Awww are u shy then? U didn’t strike me as the shy kind
    HB: 01.49 Nah not really just don’t know hw to talk about myself haha. X
    Next evening
    Me: 17.34 Hiya, ok tell you what, I ask you something and if you answer honestly u can ask me anything lol
    HB: 18.53 Yh that’s ok, ask away haha x
    Me: 19.18 What’s the best thing about u
    HB: 19.36 Hmmm my personality x
    Me: 20.12 Awww lol. Are u naughty or nice
    HB: 20.19 Haha hmmm depends on the situation. X
    Me 20.27 Hmmm what situation is that then lol

    This was the day before yesterday and she hasn’t replied. Given her responses, shall I proceed in a less flirty manner and just try to arrange to meet up with her, or try even harder to turn it sexual firstly?
    What would you text her to re-initiate the conversation?
    Please also critique my texts in general as I’m sure I could have done much better than this.

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    Default Re: Critique of texts and how to escalate this???

    Not bad in general a few tips

    Starting out telling her your day was sad is a complete no go, you're setting up the premise that you are not an enjoyable person
    Don't ever vent or whine or complain to a girl unless you know each other really well and it won't affect her opinion of you

    The sexual flirting was good definitely keep The Vibe sexual it shows her you are confident and not afraid of that stuff

    I would just wait till its been 2 days and re-open her with something random
    Like -
    "hey I got a really important question for you"
    X some response x
    "who would win in a fight a taco or a grilled cheese sandwich?". (stolen from tropics)

    Don't open with the generic -so how was your day business-

    Overall this isn't bad you're taking the texts in the right direction I wouldn't really worry about the lack of a response, keep it sexual but maybe a little more vague she was ready to flirt but maybe not answer that question just yet
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Critique of texts and how to escalate this???

    Thanks for your reply and for the positive feedback. Though, as you will find out in the rest of my post, it doesn’t appear to have been too successful.
    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Not bad in general a few tips

    Starting out telling her your day was sad is a complete no go, you're setting up the premise that you are not an enjoyable person
    Don't ever vent or whine or complain to a girl unless you know each other really well and it won't affect her opinion of you
    I was actually totally aware of this, and would never normally include negative things, but as there was a fairly genuine reason to be sad (nothing serious though) I thought it may not be too bad to include this. Was hoping it would be better than standard “my day was fine thanks” as it gives her more to start a conversation on.

    I reinitiated texting today something along the lines of what you mentioned (though a different question). She responded 2 /1/2 hours later to my first text with a simple “Yes?”, to which I responded over an hour later. Over 2 hours later again and she hasn’t yet responded to my second text. So far, this appears to be on the verge of collapse, and whilst I was only using this for practice/potential fun, it is disappointing nonetheless (more so with myself lol!).

    I’m thinking I will probably have one final crack tomorrow where I try and start a normal conversation with her and set up a date. Trying the sexual escalation now would probably be a waste of time.

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    Default Re: Critique of texts and how to escalate this???

    I would of done more playful texting to create more attraction and she will see you're fun and all and won't hesitate to text you anytime AND go on a date with you because you already showed you can be fun around. In my experiences, young hot girls need alot of NEGing.


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