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    jasedm1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Emergency! need advice quick..

    So I get a date with a girl who is smoking hot and really really sweet. We go out once and its chemistry and good. But she writed me to tell me afterwords that she needs time to herself away from dating because she "needs time to grow".
    I figure she's blowing me off so I play it cool and write back that its cool, good luck with it.
    I figured that was that.
    But she wrote back today (3 days later) to say she would like to continue writing and maybe getting dinner from time to time. Very flirty as she wrote it as well.

    Of course I'm going to say ok, but how should I say it?
    Or should I even say ok at all?

    Need advice guys, how should I do this?

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    Default Re: Emergency! need advice quick..

    Sit down dinner is too formal, so I would reccomend that you suggest grabbing a drink instead.

    Tease her back where you can, maybe respond with

    "little girl can't make up her mind huh?
    I'm down but i'd rather grab a beer instead"

    Wait a day before you respond, she took 3 days you definitely dont want to show her you're just waiting and available for her

    When you guys get drinks, flirt flirt flirt
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Emergency! need advice quick..

    Ok, I'm taking a deep breath.
    I needed to hear that, I was doubting myself even though I thought the same thing. I started getting anxious about it.

    Thanks brother

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    Default Re: Emergency! need advice quick..

    Seeing as you've already had the first date I see no reason why asking her directly (but nonchalantly) why the sudden change of heart? I'd need to see you guys together to advise honestly and accurately. Things like your body language, levels of Kino and so on. It sounds to me like she has been hedging her bets and the other horse didn't come in so to speak (just my suspicion) in any case she's come to you now so be calm (not cocky) and let her try and qualify her behaviour to you. It should be interesting. Remember your worth and don't let her take the piss out of you .

    Good luck bro.

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    Default Re: Emergency! need advice quick..

    Bringing it up in almost any way, except teasing is gonna dlv

    Even if you're calm about it it would show her it bothers you or that youve been thinking about it, I would not go that way right now

    You need to come across unaffected
    Aspiring is absolutely right about making her qualify herself to you, remember you are the prize here
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval




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