[When I wrote out the whole story I realised just how VERY long it is so advanced apologies]
Got another question about texting women, this time a different girl.
I'm hoping for some critique on my general text game and some advice on where to take things from here, as keeping up attraction via text during my physical absence is something I need to progress with, as it's a big flaw in my overall game and definitely what causes to tank most of my number closes.
Long story short this is a girl who I'd actually built up quite a good level of trust and rapport with, but haven't seen in quite some time. I could tell the attraction was beginning to fade even though she'd still initiate text conversations with me it would often be more of a "nonversation" and she'd be the one to end the banter
I decided to switch things up today by playing a game;
Her[11:52] - I am going as a punk. I can do a mowhawk x (Out of the blue but she's letting me know she's decided on her outfit to a fancy dress party we're going to at the weekend)
Me[14:32] - Fine, I'll go as a gangster. I can wear my jeans really low and throw on a hoody + some chains :P Hey, wanna play a game?
Her[14:44] - Yess plan well I have family over so when I can escape and check on my phone I can :/
Me[15:20] - Haha what's the occasion? Big family things can be sooo cringing! This game is easy! I don't know all that much about you and I wanna so let's play the questions game! Only rules are you have to answer, truthfully! Who goes first?
Her[15:25] - Oh goddd! you ask first. I'm crap at thinking of questions though lol. Yeah they're like proper christians and stuff I dunno how they're even related to us :S x
Me[15:30]NO way! My nan is just like that, when ever I visit her my cousin and I would get dragged to church like ALL day 3 times a week! Ok let's start with an easy one, favourite colour?
Her[15:33] - Hmm gold atm, you? What song is your guilty pleasure? (she goes on to talk about her family a bit more)
Me[16:00] - Blue! And you're never gonna believe this.. but the song is Gold by Spandau Ballet LOL! What's your favourite animal? (I comment on what she said about her family)
Her[16:01] - OMG that would be so fun! (re: what I said about her family) I think I kinda freaked them out with my pink hair already lol. Hmmm, it's gotta be a bunny! When you were little what was your fav TV show?
Me[16:10] - Aww that's so cute! I'm a big bad Wolf but dw I promise I won't eat you all up! Umm that's a hard question there are so many! I really liked Brum though! Hugs, or kisses?
Her[16:12] - OMG Brum scared the shit out of me! I likd Recess. Depends who tbh and what type as well, you?
Me[16:15] - LOL Why?! Brum is awesome! You picked the easy answer that's boring! :O obv it's with someone you trust, I like kissess, they tell you so much about a person!
Her[16:18] - Okayy well I agree then. It's a broad question! with close friends def hugs but I'm not much of a kisser unless it means something (The last time we were at a party with me SHE actually leant in for the kiss close, then her completely oblivious friend ran in, grabbed her arm and went "C'mon we gotta go our cab is here!" shafted :| )
Me[16:25] - True, I'm not much of a touchy person in general unless it means something. So how many serious bfs have you had?
Her[16:27] - None, I'm not gonna lie haha, but I've had a couple of gfs casual things, but I haven't properly been out with anyone for ages!
Me[16:50] - Really! Sounds like Mr. Right needs to come along and do something special to sweep you off your feet, dw I'll keep my eyes peeled for you (totally stole this from somewhere but I can't remember where exactly. Credit towards where it's due however)
Her[16:55] - Haha I've been waiting long enough! How's things with your lovelife?
Me[17:23] - I'm not serious with anyone atm but there's this really cute girl I kinda interested in. Sucks she doesn't have bigger boobs though (Stolen from same site, when in doubt that's my defacto neg)
radio silence for like an hour or so so I send
"You seem busy right now so I'll leave you to it, you're probably stuck (boring family activity)"
But then I check my computer and see she's been trying to fbk me
Her: "How's it going?"
Me: "It's all good ta just got back in from XYZ, probably going to cook dinner soon"
Her: "OMG I just got your text! Haha yeah I did have to XYZ, OUCH about the boobs part though!"
Me: "Dw I'm not the kinda jerk who only dates girls for their body, this one's special enough to pop up in my head a few times a day "
Her: "Awwwhhh thanks! "
Me: "Hey I gotta go, I can smell a roast dinner and it's making my belly grooowl! I want mine!"
Her: "Haha I've already had mine!! Yeah I'll ttyl x"
Okay so I'm not going to text her again till tomorrow, any ideas for a nice opener, and maybe how to keep the interest levels up be suggestive about our intimacy levels at this party and also how I should be around her at the actual party?
I'm grateful for any critique provided.