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Thread: Is it true girls take "kindness" for "weakness"?

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    Default Re: Is it true girls take "kindness" for "weakness"?

    These type of girls sure like to randomly hop on another D out of no where especially if you stop seeing each other for a while. Keep her on the hook and try to make her prove herself to you by being absent at times when she texts or calls. If you arent seeing much of each other she will lilely find another guy to play around with so its up to you really, commit and be part of her life as often as possible or try to sit back and let her come to you but probably have her go off with another guy if you stay in that mode. Is she a hottie too? Could prove to be a challenge to keep her, think of it that way and youll have more fun with it and shell prolly enjoy you more too and see you as a challenge as well because youre playing her game so well. Good luck man

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    Default Re: Is it true girls take "kindness" for "weakness"?

    There IS difference between kindness & weakness.
    There's also a difference between kindness & "buying" attention.

    If you pay for too much in the very beginning, a girl tends to see you as "buying her attention".... and loses attraction & respect for you.

    Although, after you've gotten to know her a little bit, it's cool to buy her whatever you want.

    What girls appreciate when it comes to kindness, has more to do with respect & chivalry than anything else.
    (Opening doors for her, pulling her chair out & helping her get seated, making her walk on the inside of a sidewalk as a way of being protective.... etc.)

    THOSE are the types of things that will build attraction, because they affect her on an emotional level & make her realize you're thoughtful & genuinely kind... (as opposed to merely showing off or buying her attention.)



    But definitely, don't think that being kind shows weakness....
    Just understand what SHE is going to interepret as kindness.



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    Default Re: Is it true girls take kindness for weakness?

    I have to admit Nice Guy syndrome is one of my biggest flaws. My last 2 relationships both told me I'm "too nice". At first I took this as a compliment but then I realized both relationships turned from sexual torrent to friend zone at the point they told me this. Girls don't desire nice guys! They use and discard them like a tissue.


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