Just got out of a long term relationship last Thursday. Basically I told her I wanted different things right now, wanted to explore myself and meet new friends as our relationship was very close. We lived together for a year and we are in school together, were both personal trainers and we workout together. We did everything together so it was a tough breakup but really necessary if I want to grow. She kind've understands but she thinks we will be back together one day when we both mature, and I think its possible but right now I don't want a relationship.
I told her to relax and just do what she really wants right now. And she responded with, I'm horny so I guess I can't get what I want. (I witheld from sex for like 3 weeks before we split). So I told her she could come over if she wants but thats a bad idea and its not gonna make me fall back in love with her.
She said its not all she wants but she is cravin it,
I just told her 'ok' and then she said Its bedtime night
I really wanna try to turn this into a once a month kinda deal, I was thinkin hold off for 2 more weeks and invite her over b4 I go on vacation so I get some and leave and have her wanting more. And kindve keep a routine like that, maybe text her once a week or some bull to keep things live and try not to be too emotional..
has anyone had good success with this, I would kill to just be this girls lover as it'll be healthier relationship