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    flyguy1990 is offline PUA in Training
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    Exclamation HELP ASAP!- How large should a text be?

    Originally me and this girl had a little game to do with who could text the most this game has gone on too long to the point where i don't think she can bother responding! I can tell by the texts that she can't be bothered and the last one i had came a day later!

    Ive only just realised this, after sending another large text a few hours ago and obviously she hasn't responded! by the way I'm dating this girl!

    So how can i salvage this?

    I thought the best way to go is weather she texts back or not, i'll phone her in a few days time saying-
    "We gotta go back to smaller texts, i'll be honest its getting kinda boring and takes a rediculous amount of time to respond more than i normally do!"

    I really don't want to mess this up please help!

    Thanks

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    Default Re: HELP ASAP!- How large should a text be?

    In my opinion u should def not say

    "We gotta go back to smaller texts, i'll be honest its getting kinda boring and takes a rediculous amount of time to respond more than i normally do!"

    That not only puts the idea that your conversations are boring into her head, i think it dlv's you (demonstrates lower value)

    Also i would avoid talking about the weather, because that too can be simple and boring.

    Honestly just dont text long things, nothing has to be said it can just occur naturally

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    Default Re: HELP ASAP!- How large should a text be?

    Steve is right on the ball.

    If she stopped playing the game, why don't you?

    Also if youve got nothing funny to say don't write her, it's much better to say nothing than to say "hey how are you?"
    Make her wonder why you aren't responding, just like you're wondering about her
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    flyguy1990 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: HELP ASAP!- How large should a text be?

    Sorry about the long message below,

    Well i know she's at home this week for a reading week (were both at the same uni and she's in my social circle) and she hasn't seen her family in a few months.

    And as stupidly massive as the text was, it was much better than the previous text id sent that she responded too.
    If anything i just want her to text back so i can send a much smaller text saying "right going into a lecture, enjoy the rest of your week and i'll see you laters" or just not text back at all.

    Infact that was the plan from the beginning send a 2 or 3 texts then say I'm off to a lecture and leave it a week, because they say you like someone better the more your away from them.

    I completely agree with not sending it,and I've asked one of my good girl mates and she's just said I'm over reacting and reading into things too much and that if she's with her family that she's not seen in months she won't respond till sunday or monday.

    So looks like the best thing to do is nothing..but what do you guys think is the best thing to do?

    Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: HELP ASAP!- How large should a text be?

    i think your kind of overthinking everything. let it come natural. texts should be fun and spontaneous not planned out.

    Also make sure you dont come off as needy toward her, like you need her attention etc.

    theres a quote i think it goes somthing like "if you act like your afraid to lose her, you've already lost her"

    GL

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    Default Re: HELP ASAP!- How large should a text be?

    Your completely right, and i know i didn't plan out the texts exactly i just knew i was going to send a few then end it for a week. The last thing i want is to come off as needy or desprate thats why I'm not replying and just forgetting about it and getting on with stuff, and i'll see her when see gets back or whatever.

    Thanks Again guys.


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