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  1. #1
    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Guys what do you think went wrong here...

    Hey I recently met this HB9 at a club and have been texting her. Have a look at the following:

    Me: Hey cool meeting you the other night, going out next week if you wanna come for a drink i'll be about? x

    Her (1 day later): Did we meet in oceana? Haha, faint reccolection... Ahaha

    Me (8 hours later): Ha ha yeah. We did. You were telling me I should text you to arrange a meet up for next week. But i hardly know you :P

    Her (3 hours later): Ahahahahahhah.... I shouldn't be allowed near alcohol :P ahhaah, did you have a good night?! x

    Me (1 hour later): Haha bit of a lightweight? And yeah was a great night! :P x

    At this point I got no response so I started a new thread the next day....

    Me: Hey, you naughty alcoholic I'm so coldd brrrr. What you get up to this weekend? x

    Her (1 minute later): Hahahaha, been working! Worked 12 hours yest, and the same today ): boo! You?? x

    Me (20 minutes later): Haha! Where on hell do you work? A brothel? :P x

    Her (1 minute later): Hahahhahaha, oh yeah hahahaha - nah I wish it was a brothel!! Nahh, I've been coming home to work sometimes to keep the moolah coming in ha! Work in an old peoples home - as i'm doing nursing at uni lol xx

    Me (30 minutes later): Hahaha so you have to change their underwear and scrub them down? I wouldn't mind you coming round for a moment or two p.s. do you prefer chocolate or strawberries and cream? x

    Her (10 minutes later): Oooh, chocolate and strawberries? am i allowed to mix it up? Hahah, and i'm gonna pass on the coming round to wipe your ass invite hahah... :P xxx

    Me (30 minutes later): Hey don't be greedy and damn I really needed a good wipe. Could have been fun! p.s Rom com, horror or action movies? x

    Her (3 minutes later): Ooooh, I love them all! Like, i love the notebook, anddd also love the matrix, so i seriously watch anything!! Not too keen on horror... I have an over active imagination and scare myself ahahh!! Xx

    Me (15 minute later): Ooh the matrix is a good movie, not so sure about the notebook, bit too girly for me. I'm a 300 type of guy and I have a strange likeness for rom coms :P xx

    Her (1 minute later): Omg, I watched 300 literally last week! Hahahahahha, yes to romcoms! C'mon, name your faves!! x p.s first time i read that i thought it said "I have a strange likeness for roman coins" I was like. Wtf. Hahahahah! x

    Me (4 minutes later): Well the romans did have some great taste. Nice! We so have to watch it this week, wednesday or thursday? P.s I'll melt some chocolate for the strawberries! x

    - That was the last text and no response for 2 hours, what do you think went wrong and what went right up there ^. All comments are helpful please

    p.s. I also think the last text about romans having some good taste was such a bad line.

    Your thoughts?

    Finchy x
    Work hard, Play hard players! Oh and Man up, girls like men.

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    Grant C is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Guys what do you think went wrong here...

    I dont think the coin bit was bad I think you may lost it by trying to push a day on her straight after mentioning it, as in maybe you should have left the wednesday or thursday bit out. And I would of only asked her one odd question.

    This is how I plan out my first text:
    -Hi (her name)
    -Reference on how you met (at club)
    -Bulk, share your night (where you went after/random story of what you done)but keep it short.
    -Mini statement that is relevant to when you met.
    -Then a P.S with an odd question (what do you prefer? etc).

    Let me know if this helps.

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    flyguy1990 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Guys what do you think went wrong here...

    Yeah the push at the end may have come too soon, you should have ended the conversation (it was at the peak of interest) and leave it a few days so she can think about you more, then text her asking to meet up or something.

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    Default Re: Guys what do you think went wrong here...

    Finchy - you did well. But you pushed it to far with the reference to her wiping your butt. That is a HUGE turn-off.

    But good for trying to push the envelope - that is the only way to find out how far you can go... and now you know. lol

    Keep it up and let us know how it goes with this girl (and about 5 other girls which you should be texting).

    BP


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